Love help: I feel un wanted, un attractive, alone, scared, sick, hopeless. - Help.com

please end relationship with him he doesn’t deserve you neither your relationship are ok with him .

u are ofcaurse wanted, attractive, being atractive or wanted never stuck with him or ur body .

I’m so sorry you feel that way. I don’t know how to help you except to point out that you might be happier without this person in your life.

i don’t know bout you but i believe that if i have a partner, he shouldn’t dictate my self-esteem. he should love for for who i am and not for what i look like.

your partner has a concern if your gaining weight will somehow affect your health. but if the only concern is looks, it is then questionable motif.

then again, it’s just my thoughts…

Hi ! Really sad to hear of your unhappiness. It seems to me difficulties with the relationship have led you to focus on your body and your own self worth as a problem. Loosing someone is scarey and can leave one feeling empty but that is a passing phase. Are any of the things that you fear really as bad as how you feel now in the relationship?

Maybe you can work things out. Tell your partner how his words make you feel. One way or another you will learn how HE feels. It is best to get things out in the open.

Best wishes, be brave, you’ll get through this.

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I think you are just insecure…get over it or he will get over you. I’m sure he doesnt feel this way..if yes, then move on.

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I think you are just insecure…get over it or he will get over you. I’m sure he doesnt feel this way..if yes, then move on.

To add on, is that you in the display picture? If yes, i think you look really cute..i will totally date you or ask you out. Well, if you don’t mind me being a girl too.

You are very pretty. Yes, a guy should love you for who u are. If you can accept making changes that you agree you should, than do it. Its not fair he is saying them things to you but some guys are into looks that much. If you dont want to, dont. Move on and find someone who loves you the way you are!