If he really likes you more than friends, he would have tried to pursue a relationship or do something about it. If he didnt or havent even tried, then maybe he just likes to hang out with you.
Did you try to hint him before?
Tell him. Tell him how you feel. My best guess is that he’s going out with that girl at university to get some tail. If he loves you - really loves you - and you love him… you need to tell him. Even if it turns out he doesn’t love you anymore, YOU must tell him. It’s bad to have unresolved feelings inside you and if he does like you… things might improve for the both of you!
Take the risk or forever hold your peace!
Anonymous wrote:
If he really likes you more than friends, he would have tried to pursue a relationship or do something about it. If he didnt or havent even tried, then maybe he just likes to hang out with you.
Did you try to hint him before?
I know he liked me because he told a friend of mine he did.
Jesermay wrote:
Tell him. Tell him how you feel. My best guess is that he’s going out with that girl at university to get some tail. If he loves you - really loves you - and you love him… you need to tell him. Even if it turns out he doesn’t love you anymore, YOU must tell him. It’s bad to have unresolved feelings inside you and if he does like you… things might improve for the both of you!
Take the risk or forever hold your peace!
I know :/ people keep telling me to i just have such a bad track record i’m not sure i trust my judgement anymore. and he isn’t the type to just “chase tail” he’s a relatinship guy. andhe’s so lovely….i’d hate myself if i hurt him or ruined things for him
You wouldn’t hurt him or ruin things for him by telling you how YOU feel. Only he can do that for himself. Get it off your chest or FORGET about him. You can’t keep going on like this - it will only hurt you more and leave you trapped.
I’m 50 yaers young and I have to say I had guy friends growing up in my late teens and early twentys. We were such good friends hanging out I just felt they saw me only as a friend as well. Years later I learned two of these guys really liked me and where afraid they would ruin the friendship we had if they told me. And here all along we both felt the same. Let him knowhow you feel tell him you know he just started dating someone and you dont want to interfer with this. Tell him if they dont work out you are interested in pursuing a relationship!
Good Luck! And I have respect for you that it matters he is seeing someone and your not trying to cause problems….Go For It!
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fry wrote:
i have seen your other posts also and you seem like a typical b****
interesting, why’s that? :)
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fry wrote:
heysnowwhite wrote:
fry wrote:
i have seen your other posts also and you seem like a typical b****
interesting, why’s that? :)
because you are self centered , not to be fun with around, and whine on petty selfish issues.
ah fair enough, as opposed to some dickhead who creates accounts on websites just to troll other peoples lives, because he hasn’t got one of his own?
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If you discovered a few months ago - which should be prior to his relationship with this other girl - that he liked you the entire time then why didn’t you convey your feelings to him in return?
Also, how can you be sure that he still likes you now that he’s in a relationship with someone else?
Has he told you recently, or at any time during his relationship,that he likes you more than a friend?
I think windmills has a great point. I think you should leave him alone. He has the chance to develop something good with a girl who knew that she wanted to be with him. This has nothing to do with whether you are good enough, it’s about doing the right thing.
windmills, wrote:
If you discovered a few months ago - which should be prior to his relationship with this other girl - that he liked you the entire time then why didn’t you convey your feelings to him in return?
Also, how can you be sure that he still likes you now that he’s in a relationship with someone else?
Has he told you recently, or at any time during his relationship,that he likes you more than a friend?
I didn’t tell him, because it was around this time my grandfather died and I wasn’t really looking for anything, it just wasn’t the right time. He’s isn’t in an official relationship with the girl in question, they’ve literally been on three dates or so. And i have no idea whether he still likes me :/
I’m sorry about your grandfather.
I think you should continue to talk with him and be his friend. There’s no harm in doing that. Things might not work out between him and this other girl; and if so, you can hopefully be there waiting in the wings, so to speak.
Who is this Fry guy he was very rude in what he said his profile must have been flagged cause you cant pull it up! Geeezz! Some people! You sound like a good person and not someone trying to meddle or be a B*&&*. Sorry there are people like that on here he should be banned. There are some really nice genuine people on here who care and are here to share and help!
Good Luck with everything! And sorry for your loss.
AT. You use both of your long legs and that shy but ‘come hither’ smile and you go after him with everything you got. Take no prisoners…! You deserve this. Do not let this opportunity slip through your fingers.
I’m wishing you all the best, love.♥
I Agree with SC go for it! Keep us posted…….we love happy endings :)
southern_comfort, IP wrote:
AT. You use both of your long legs and that shy but ‘come hither’ smile and you go after him with everything you got. Take no prisoners…! You deserve this. Do not let this opportunity slip through your fingers.
I’m wishing you all the best, love.♥
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