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how should i treat my baby brother from my fathers new marriage.

his new wife was not that nice to me and my brother.
after marriage, our father also didn’t love us the way he used to care for us

should i love him or care for him
i could completely avoid him and don’t consider him as my brother
i don’t think i should do this as its only a baby and has done nothing to us
But i don’t know.

what do you think ?

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loreleijanebel offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (30 minutes after post)

Its best just to love him as your brother. What his mother and father are like is not his fault and I know from experience that having a younger brother under any circumstances is actually a lot of fun

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

Lovably like to the brother of you he is — what else!
Don’t transfer your aversion for his mother to him! He is completely innocent.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 31 minutes after post)

Love him and consider him your brother. The more love the better. It is crazy to blame a baby for a parent’s actions.

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11 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 49 minutes after post)

Babies represent a new start. You, your brother, your father and his new wife should try to use this beautiful child to form a closer bond and to build bridges. What’s past is past. There is no such thing as a half brother, only a brother. He is your whole brother and you connect to him as if he were also from your mother. I’ve always wanted a little brother and I’m feeling rather jealous now. Could you do me a favour? When you next see him tickle him for me. Best wishes….

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