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This is messed up, I spent most of the day getting

ready by cleaning my car, getting a hair cut etc to go out with this girl later and we planned to go out today 3 days ago and right when I get out the shower and get dressed she cancels!!!!!! I could have been doing other things but I canceled all my other plans and now I am stuck at home with nothing to do! Do you think because I was running late by about 30 minutes made her cancel? I told her that I was running late though because my day has been crazy. The things us men go through for women.

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beth136196 offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

She’s probably spent the whole day getting ready herself , but then her hair wouldn’t go right or something stupid like that. if she really likes you she would want everything to go well for your first date. this could be a very good sign that she really likes you. Ask her out again.

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Country offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

I’ve been there bro. The worst thing you can do is give a crap though. Just keep being awesome. That’s what I always do and everything works out fine.

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Always griffin offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

Kiss my lily white A$$,
the things we women have to do for men.
I don’t know why she would hav canceled on you.
Were you going out to eat or to a movie??

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 46 minutes after post)

Well, that sounds disappointing. Why not call her and tell her how sad you are that you missed seeing such a lovely person who is worth so much of your time and preparation? ^^
But if you don’t think she is, I wonder why you’d spend the time. This happens from time to time, but for the chance to spend time with the right girl I’d consider it worth it =P

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Positivemessylove offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

“The things us men go through for women.” What did you do, make time to hang out with her? Give up one night of your life?
BATHE?
I’m sorry that she canceled on you and that it completely ruined your whole night. I hate it when guys cancel on me, it makes me feel like a dirty napkin. Didn’t she give you a reason? Or did she just say she was busy? I bet she had a good reason, and you are just overreacting.

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Positivemessylove offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

DarkSnow wrote:
Well, that sounds disappointing. Why not call her and tell her how sad you are that you missed seeing such a lovely person who is worth so much of your time and preparation? ^^

Are you a guy Darksnow? Do you want to marry me, maybe if so? Please and thank you!!

That’s how a GENTLEMEN acts.

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Positivemessylove offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

beth136196 wrote:
She’s probably spent the whole day getting ready herself , but then her hair wouldn’t go right or something stupid like that. if she really likes you she would want everything to go well for your first date. this could be a very good sign that she really likes you. Ask her out again.

that’s SO true.

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

Allthemessylove. wrote:
Are you a guy Darksnow? Do you want to marry me, maybe if so? Please and thank you!!

Yes to the first question ^^ Haha. I’m not even interested in dating in the near future. It’s a long, sad story =)

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