Love help: so I was with my bf since 2 years and a half but about 4 months ago we left each other

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so I was with my bf since 2 years and a half but about 4 months ago we left each other

i was moving on but then about 3 weeks ago i was surprised when i saw a msg from him telling me that he stole my fb password and saw my msgs and that he was shocked

my fb inbox contain msgs from 3 friends of mine all of them are just friends and only on internet i dunno them in real life and we were just chatting about normal things nothing more than friends and he know am talking to these guys and he never told me to stop chatting on the internet

he got mad because of one of the msgs I am telling that guy that i miss him it was ” hey how are you i miss you man ,it’s been a while since we last talk” so he got mad

after talking with my x bf and explaining everything and that he know that am talking with these guys and it never been a problem to him and that all of them are just internet friends ,we got back together because he told me that he miss me and still love me and stuff like that

so before two days someone told me that my bf was standing with a group of guys at uni after we left each other then they asked him why did u left ur gf and he said because she is a “***** ”
i was shocked because i never thought that would come from this person ,i trusted him with my life and it have been 2 years beside him i never talked with any other guy ,even those guys on the internet they are just friends and he know that

so i love him so much i really love him i want him in my life but he called me that in front of guys i dunno so i dunno what to do
do i have to ask him if he said that and why he said it
or do i have to keep silent and don’t talk to him about it… we are together now !!

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so I was with my bf since 2 years and a half but about 4 months ago we left each other

i was moving on but then about 3 weeks ago i was surprised when i saw a msg from him telling me that he stole my fb password and saw my msgs and that he was shocked

my fb inbox contain msgs from 3 friends of mine all of them are just friends and only on internet i dunno them in real life and we were just chatting about normal things nothing more than friends and he know am talking to these guys and he never told me to stop chatting on the internet

he got mad because of one of the msgs I am telling that guy that i miss him it was ” hey how are you i miss you man ,it’s been a while since we last talk” so he got mad

after talking with my x bf and explaining everything and that he know that am talking with these guys and it never been a problem to him and that all of them are just internet friends ,we got back together because he told me that he miss me and still love me and stuff like that

so before two days someone told me that my bf was standing with a group of guys at uni after we left each other then they asked him why do u left ur gf and he said because she is a “***** ”
i was shocked because i never thought that would come from this person ,i trusted him with my life and it have been 2 years beside him i never talked with any other guy ,even those guys on the internet they are just friends and he know that

so i love him so much i really love him i want him in my life but he called me that in front of guys i dunno so i dunno what to do
do i have to ask him if he said that and why he said it
or do i have to keep silent and don’t talk to him about it… we are together now !!

southern_comfort 37 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (53 minutes after post)

The maturity level here is way down from where it should be. If the word ‘uni’ wasn’t there I would have guessed you both were around 13 or 14. Stealing Facebook passwords? Give me a break! You are not together. You are jealous of one another. Jealousy is not a relationship builder. It is quite the opposite; more like a cancer. Get off of Facebook. It is for adults that know how to conduct themselves. Not for you two. Way too much drama going on. Perhaps you are trying to win a Tony award…??

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soso90.wow 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

can’t you notice he is the immature one ,He stole the password and he is doing all the drama 1!!
where did i do wrong ? plz tell me

ilivelife 11 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 hours, 43 minutes after post)

So this is a guy you have been split up from for 4 months.

You were moving on from him.

Then you find out he has hacked into your FB account and read your private messages….and that made you want to get back together with him???

He violated your privacy, over-reacted, and he wasn’t even going out with you at the time(I presume he did this recently?) so it wasn’t even any of his business!

I really don’t understand why you would want to get back together with him after that.

And now you find out he has been saying derogatory things about you to his friends.

I would call this reunion off. Relationships that lack trust don’t work.

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soso90.wow 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 hours, 13 minutes after post)

ilivelife wrote:
So this is a guy you have been split up from for 4 months.

You were moving on from him.

Then you find out he has hacked into your FB account and read your private messages….and that made you want to get back together with him???

He violated your privacy, over-reacted, and he wasn’t even going out with you at the time(I presume he did this recently?) so it wasn’t even any of his business!

I really don’t understand why you would want to get back together with him after that.

And now you find out he has been saying derogatory things about you to his friends.

I would call this reunion off. Relationships that lack trust don’t work.

you are right but i love him madly it have been 2 years with him and i know he did very bad things and that i deserve better but i still love him !! :(
I will leave him next week

ilivelife 11 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (10 hours, 15 minutes after post)

soso90.wow wrote:

ilivelife wrote:
So this is a guy you have been split up from for 4 months.

You were moving on from him.

Then you find out he has hacked into your FB account and read your private messages….and that made you want to get back together with him???

He violated your privacy, over-reacted, and he wasn’t even going out with you at the time(I presume he did this recently?) so it wasn’t even any of his business!

I really don’t understand why you would want to get back together with him after that.

And now you find out he has been saying derogatory things about you to his friends.

I would call this reunion off. Relationships that lack trust don’t work.

you are right but i love him madly it have been 2 years with him and i know he did very bad things and that i deserve better but i still love him !! :(
I will leave him next week

I understand that you love him, however these recent events should make you realise that you are better off without him. Good luck for next week!

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (19 hours, 3 minutes after post)

remember y u broke up in the 1st place..

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