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First post but its a tough one!

My Relationship is a weird story and i’m super confused with everything going on! i’ll start from the top. My girlfriend and I of two years are on a break! we lived together all of last year but i lost my job awhile ago and it has been super hard to find another, It has started to get better but still no job! and i moved out of our apartment to a lager area to find a job so i was visiting her every weekend, After this a few months ago she wanted to take a break so that we can both work on things we need to fix (mainly myself) but she still wants to talk to me! she texts me everyday still and i still go see her maybe every other week now and nothing seems to be all that different but we just don’t have that Relationship Tag! but i was visiting her last weekend and i found out she went camping with some of her friends! mostly guy friends and she did not tell me because she thought i would get pissed off about it! and it just made the whole thing worse! i’m just not sure what is going on or what i should do! is she talking to someone else? am i just on the hook just in case she doesn’t find someone else? she has been texting one of her guy friends but they have been friends for a long time and she tells me that nothing is going on with anyone else. im just really unsure what to do about everything! thanks for any help!

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Positivemessylove offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (57 minutes after post)

TALK TO HER.
TALK TO HER.
TALK TO HER.

ask her what’s going on with your relationship. If she plans on seeing anyone else. If she’s taking a break from dating you so she can see other people, or if she’s waiting for you. Tell her you want the truth!

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