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Well, I’m really worried about the situation in my home.

I’m 20 and only child.

My father never got a degree, so he always worked doing what he learned by himself (wood), but that never give him enough money. My mother always worked and earn money to sustain our family.

My father always been so hurt by this situation. He felt he failed as a father an as a husband. Yesterday he got drunk and said that his life is awfull and that he wanted to send all to hell, even ending with his life.

The situation is worst because of my mother temperament because sometimes she looses control and hurt him with her words. For her, being the only one who works is hard and sometimes she explodes.

Now, my father says that he can’t live with her anymore and that he want to save money to leave. I know he never would make enough money and I’m afraid he leaves because of desesperation and ended living inhumanly.

Both, mom and dad are really proudful and has a lot of resentment to each other. I don’t want them to live unhappy, not talking to each other or frustrated. But I also know that they are getting old and they need each other.

I don’t know how to do.

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