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should i email her or not?

okay, so there’s this girl i’ve been talking to for a month. and she’s schizophrenic ..i have no problem with this. but one day her best friend tom emailed me basically asking me to stay away from her. i told her about the email and she was mad but she didn’t say anything to him until 2 days ago….she confronted him….and he emailed me yesterday saying that they slept together. here’s the catch though…..she’s lesbian and he knows that. she also was raped as a child. he said she’s called the school **** for a reason. but he said she doesn’t care. she is used to being used. thats what she said to him. and he kept kissing her. and he said ‘passion’ took over. that’s a bunch of ******** if you ask me. he could have stopped but he didn’t. he said he kept going because she didn’t stop him. he said to me ..she’s distraught and won’t talk to me for a while. i’m worried …that she might hurt herself because that was her best friend. and she trusted him. and he took advantage of her. it wasn’t rape but i mean he kept kissing her when he shouldn’t. she doesn’t care anymore if guys have sex with her because she’s use to it. she’s been through hell and back. and i really am freaking out because i don’t want anything to happen to her. so can you tell me whether i should email her asking if she’s okay? even though he told me she won’t talk to me for awhile

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