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I am a 15 year old girl who did somethign really bad

I went on this site where you can talk to stragers and this 18 year old talks to me and i talk back and I participate in online sex (i did not get as into it as he did though i was just faking it by tpying in what i thought he want me to like sex noises) and then he asked for my e-mail so i gave him my fake one (though out all of this he thought I was 17) and he gave me him the he asked for a picture of me and so I gave him one of my boobs and he gave me one of his man parts and then he asked for one of my body and thats where I stop talking to him and this all happen tonight I feel bad and now I scared that I did something terable that I can’t fixs help and I can’t tell my parents because they would kill me can anyone help me please help?

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TheSuicidalOne offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (31 minutes after post)

dont ever go back to that website, and learn from your mistake

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babacup offline Verified User (5 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 11 months ago (48 minutes after post)

the manning er is right, learn from this mistake.

Forgive yourself and don’t do it again.

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11 months ago (55 minutes after post)

That’s considered child pornography that you’ve just distributed and he is now in possession of. He could go to jail for even asking for pictures of you, never mind possessing a picture. That was a really bad choice. Tell your guidance counsellor at school. They need to know.

Something to think about:
If he’s after you and got this far, he might (and likely will) go after somebody else. They might be even younger. They might not know enough to stop it. He could go further with them and really end up hurting them. Don’t let somebody else fall victim to his behaviours. He needs counselling, at the very least. He won’t get it unless you do something. Please don’t access that site again.

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (7 years) Long Term User Shouts: 178 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

He wasn’t 18. More likely 48 or 58. Typing in “noises” is one thing. Sending naked pictures crosses the line. Please do not do this again. How were the pictures taken? I hope not with your phone.

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SlightlyUnique offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (2 hours, 14 minutes after post)

Do bear in mind that she said she was 17 which is legal in many places - and he may have actually been honest about his age rather than older!

Kids do this **** often enough without bringing in that pile of worms :P

Anyway - To you OP - as others have said - Learn by your mistakes. Your breasts could now be posted on half a dozen free sites around the web.

FORTUNATELY you didn’t give out your face or body so its pretty much impossible to even be tagged back to you, and hus you can live without worry that something like this is going to come back and haunt you.

Just please learn from this mistake and share only with those you truely trust - not any person from the net

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (2 hours, 47 minutes after post)

Omegle isn’t a save place for girls in the age of consent.

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SlightlyUnique offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (3 hours, 44 minutes after post)

heh - the internet as a whole isn’t a safe place full stop!

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (7 years) Long Term User Shouts: 178 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (3 hours, 46 minutes after post)

SlightlyUnique wrote:
FORTUNATELY you didn’t give out your face or body so its pretty much impossible to even be tagged back to you,

Au contraire. The meta tags attached to the photos could indeed be traced back to her up to and including her cell phone number.

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SlightlyUnique offline Verified User (4 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (3 hours, 48 minutes after post)

Goddamnit - I forgot about that!

Fortunately not that many people would go to that level on a pair of random breasts (assuming they end up in public domain of course)

Therefore the only thing she has to worry about is that single person - given that its likely that he’ll just find another lass to do the same thing with she’s somewhat safe…

A little luck and she’ll be fine - I hope!

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tammy99 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (10 hours, 12 minutes after post)

Thank you for all the comment the really do help and I will never to that again tust me I feel aweful with myself and I didn’t take the picture with my phone and I will learn and move on from this also I will never go to that site again I should have stuck to my gut and never when there in the frist place thank you all again for you wounderful advice.

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