Love help: What does being in love feel like? - Help.com

i don’t know if i really love him but i just somewhere know that i do love him.
i have been in love since i guess the last 2 yrs or so but lately i don’t know i’m loosing hope but i can’t let him go it’s like i just see my whole life with him & i wanna spent every moment of my life with him till my very last breath. i feel like its meant to be i think about him all the time & i think about being with all the time. when i see like old couples i imagine me & him & i know i sound crazy but he doesn’t even know but nothing in the world means anything without him….
i don’t know i know i should let go but i can’t & i don’t want to because it seems right somehow.

how do i fall out of it? whatever it is?

well thanks :)

i’ve had both, lust for sure. for me it was like after the fact, i couldn’t care less. i just wanted the fix. love…i think as well(yet was never ‘in love’ at least that i knew about). out of the blue i find myself feeling thankful for having him in my life yet as much as i picture the rest of my life with him, i also know if he’s gone for whatever reason- it’ll be ok. i would feel loss but it’s not the end of the world. i never understood the ‘he/she’s my whole world, if they leave me i can not exist!’ kind of mindset. it always sounded very uh, needy as opposed to love imo.

I thought I was losing it once. I let it go. We were together 2 years. I was suicidal, and thought that if I was thinking this, then I must’ve not felt that way about her. I said and did some things that I shouldn’t have. I have lived the past 2 months regretting everything I said. I have also been fighting for her in my own way to prove to her that I can keep my promises, and better myself for what I want.

Don’t just drop it. work through it. Talk it out.