Love help: Going to tell him i want a break and am going to my parents tomorrow. - Help.com

Your counselling wasn’t helpful? ( http://help.com/post/550652-help-goin… )

At the moment you should write (him?) only, that you need a time-out. More and more detailed points you can write him later when you found your calm and peace again.

you just need to be honest. are you in fear of something? why do you want the break there are many ways to approch stuff like this but to give you the best advice i need to know more about the situation

Ok, you both have to know, that marriage counselling in many cases lead to the break. But the good thing of counselling even in this case is that it helps to understand the reasons for the break and to separate in a fair way.

Then secure some of the money before you go to have for back up! But don’t let this bring fear. Although it is a good point and most likely what will happen. So be prepared and take what you feel is right in money and possessions with you. If you work things out you will bring it all back and if not you will have some security. Advising you this from experience. Good luck and maybe the couseling will work out.

cupcake7 wrote:
I fear that he will sell our things or move all our money. But I know that cant be a reson to stay.