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I asked about a girl situation at work, she always

has the biggest smile on her face when she is talking to me and always starting up random conversations, but she had a boyfriend, some people said she was intereste some said she wasnt . Well the other day she txted me at like 7 in the morning to tell me her boyfriend broke up with her we talked through the day she seemed upset, i asked her and her ki to do sumthing with me and mine she said yes she woul love to but now it seems like she has gone cold I know she is not with her boyfriend, but I dont know what is up. WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK???

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Never overestimate how much someone likes you.

Besides, it doesn’t really matter. She’s your friend, and she’s having a hard time. No matter what she thinks of you, she’s probably still sad and could use encouragement. Whether or not she’s interested in you I don’t know, and it’s not as important, I think. ^^
People appreciate those who are kind to them.

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confusedhear offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (9 minutes after post)

I really like her more than a friend, I would love the chance with her but I am afraid I am seriously mis reading the situation and would ruin our friendship which is also important, but I know I would treat her like she deserves to be treated and I just feel like we click and she is interested but I dont know?

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NinaD offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (13 minutes after post)

I agree with the first reply!!! A break up is hard, especially if u really gave ur ex all u got. Give her time to cool down and stick with her. Try to get to talk to her about it, if it helps! Get to know her. She probably won’t be looking to date anytime soon if it hurts her a lot. Keep her mind off it. Hope everything works out!

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DarkSnow offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (13 minutes after post)

If she is interested, your friendship will probably keep deepening. You can tell if someone hates your or likes you by the way that your friendship with them changes over time. Some people you lose friendships with because they don’t want to be around you, and other people you get to talk to and see more often. Don’t worry about knowing if she likes you, just enjoy your time with her and take whatever happens.
That doesn’t mean though, of course, that you give up on trying to see her ^^

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