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Maybe it’s just me, but would you find it strange if

your best guy friend tells all his others friends that he loves them and he don’t tell me, whom, he has known for years and we can tell each other anything. Does he not like me? I mean he’s one of those people who loves everyone old and young, male and female. But he can tell people he barely knows he loves them…in a friendly way…but he’s never told me. And I don’t know I just keep thinking about it.

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jh145912 offline Verified User (4 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

Boy, i don’t know. I’m kind of like that though. I love everybody, but it’s easy for me to forget to tell those closest to me how much I care. I think it’s because I love them so much more, and they are so much more important to me, that I don’t think I could say it casually to them, the way I can to others…

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BigWilly! offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 53 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

Personally, I can live without bromance in my life. My dog loves me and that’s enough. Maybe your friend just takes his feelings for you for granted, and the reciprocity, and his reminder to others might be a sign of insecurity.

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denver.jess offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (33 minutes after post)

I wouldn’t worry about it. It’s probably just a casual figure of speech he uses without thinking about it too much. Actions speak louder than words, and you can tell by his behavior towards you that you are important to him.

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Positivemessylove offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 20 minutes after post)

I don’t think he means it personally. I just think he hasn’t said it, yet.

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