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there is a girl i like and i got her number and we

had a few conversations over text but soon she started not texting me back and i called her once and she answered but was really hesitant and ended the conversation almost right away and i now do not know what to do. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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airibreath offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (48 minutes after post)

Hey calm down. She probably just doesn’t want to talk right now. There was this guy texting me before and he sent them so often, two and three at a time, that it turned me away. I like texting, but I do not like being a slave to my phone. Besides, she could be busy or she could be tired. Just give it a rest for a bit. I’d only text her once per response. If no response then wait at least an hour before texting again. If still no response then she just doesn’t want to talk. If you pester her and try calling her you might just be pushing her away. Just give her a break. Hope this helps.

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Snar offline Verified User (5 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 71 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

What I learned about approaching relationships in the way you described:

don’t do it.

Ask her on a real date. Quick.

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

It seems like she doesn’t like you as much. I’m sorry, that sucks, but you should try to move on.

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Positivemessylove offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (1 hour, 35 minutes after post)

it sounds like she’s either busy and can’t talk, or not interested in you. to see which one it is, you should wait a few days and see if she initiates the conversation. if she doesn’t, then you can always text her after a while and be like “hey whatsup?” and then judging by her reply, if she does reply, you should be able to tell whether or not she missed you/likes you/wants to talk to you/what have you.

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