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Do u think opersits work in a relationship?

I am dating. Girl who likes to go out wit friends, have w.laugh, who wants to do things..

Where I am more solitary and pefere being on my own… She wantse to meet here friends etc bit I dont want 3

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Positivemessylove 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (2 minutes after post)

I think if she makes you uncomfortable, the relationship will not go far. Does she want you to go along with her girlfriends?
If not, than what’s the big deal?
If she makes you happy, then be with her. If not, than not.

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verge 134 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Sure, sometimes as well as those who are simerler :)

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hdh #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (6 minutes after post)

She wants me to go out with her like every other week with her n her fries… Sue nos how I feel about it but I dont think she cares, she was like we might as well call it quits if you dont want to as my friends mean a lot to me… And I want them to know u… But why shoukd I care if they know me? They hav met menace ent that emogj

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Positivemessylove 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (9 minutes after post)

are you emotionally compromised? I can’t read anything you were saying.

hdh wrote:
….with her n her fries… Sue nos how I feel …. like we might as well call it quits if you dont want to as my friends mean a lot to me…They hav met menace ent that emogj

lanta.

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elyse311 0 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (10 minutes after post)

It sounds like a good fit in the long run. when you want alone time your partner can go out with friends. no one feels like they miss doing what they want. just make sure you make time to spend with each other and sometimes compromise such as meet the friends if you can both see your choice movie or something you want to do. :)

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elyse311 0 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Allthemessylove. wrote:
are you emotionally compromised? I can’t read anything you were saying.

hdh wrote:
….with her n her fries… Sue nos how I feel …. like we might as well call it quits if you dont want to as my friends mean a lot to me…They hav met menace ent that emogj

lanta.

don’t be mean she probably has dyslexia. I have it but I have spell check on auto.

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Positivemessylove 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (13 minutes after post)

I’m sorry.

elyse311 wrote:

don’t be mean she probably has dyslexia. I have it but I have spell check on auto.

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hdh #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (16 minutes after post)

She has said to me that if I dont meet her friends then we might as well call it quits as they mean a lot to ur and that I dont think he cares how I feel about the situation as she says its about giving and taking but I never ask her for anything

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the tree 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (23 minutes after post)

Opposites can work, it depends how comfortable you are in that situation :)
If people dated others exactly like themselves, that would be one BORING relationship!
I would suggest you try meeting her friends before you totally count that option out; you never know, you may have fun! If it’s not meant to be, no doubt things will start to fizzle out. That’s life! Give it a try first ;) no sense in wasting an oppurtunity!
x

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Snar 117 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (35 minutes after post)

Opposites are the only choice we loners have.

It is a logical necessity.

Think about it.

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An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 40 minutes after post)

I should think so. Strangely enough, we sometimes seem to be drawn to the traits in a person which are not seen in ourselves. Perhaps it can be simplified by saying our opposites have something we want and, in turn, we have something they want.

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