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3 questions.

1. How do i break it to my dad (telling him or through letter) that my bf is going to propose to me soon?

2. How do i break it to my dad that i want to move to another state (like 4 hours away by car) and go to college there? (I figure it will be easier to do this one after we’re engaged)

3. I never did like the saying till death do we part. What if im clingy? What if i don’t want to part after death? What if i want to be together through life and eternity? forever and always?

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Positivemessylove offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (5 minutes after post)

is the third one even a question?

as for one and two, just tell him. somewhere public, so he doesn’t freak out. unless he likes freaking out in public, then do it at a drive thru. with food and good music. and maybe he won’t freak out. which, you know him more than any of us do, depends on the way you tell him and how you do it and stuff.
hope this helps…

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12 months ago (11 minutes after post)

It was suppose to be, but it kinda turned into multiple questions. :\

okay. thanks. :)

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TripleTT offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (28 minutes after post)

I like the drive thru suggestions! lol

Allthemessylove. wrote:
is the third one even a question?

as for one and two, just tell him. somewhere public, so he doesn’t freak out. unless he likes freaking out in public, then do it at a drive thru. with food and good music. and maybe he won’t freak out. which, you know him more than any of us do, depends on the way you tell him and how you do it and stuff.
hope this helps…

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TripleTT offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (33 minutes after post)

Does your dad like this guy????

How about the old fashion way where your bf ask your dad for his daughters hand in marriage?

If your dad drinks have his favorite bottle there for a toast!

As for #3 thats awesome that you found someone you want to spend eternity and beyound with!

Good luck with the engagement and move and enjoy!

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Dragon_Lady offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (36 minutes after post)

Tell whoever is performing the service you want your vows to say “For as long as love shall last”.

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (48 minutes after post)

I like that!

Dragon_Lady wrote:
Tell whoever is performing the service you want your vows to say “For as long as love shall last”.

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12 months ago (49 minutes after post)

nolater wrote:
Does your dad like this guy????

How about the old fashion way where your bf ask your dad for his daughters hand in marriage?

If your dad drinks have his favorite bottle there for a toast!

As for #3 thats awesome that you found someone you want to spend eternity and beyound with!

Good luck with the engagement and move and enjoy!

I’m not sure. My dad hasn’t really said whether or not he likes him yet.

He is going to do it the old fashion way, but i wanted to tell my dad so when he does come he’ll know why.

He doesn’t drink much.

Thanks

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Anonymous #
12 months ago (50 minutes after post)

Dragon_Lady wrote:
Tell whoever is performing the service you want your vows to say “For as long as love shall last”.

lol =D

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Siren offline Verified User (4 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:

Dragon_Lady wrote:
Tell whoever is performing the service you want your vows to say “For as long as love shall last”.

lol =D

yeah you could write your own vows.

how long is it until you want to move away? i think if you hit him with both then he might feel hes losing you. your bf should break it to him by asking permission.
and just casually bring up moving away, say your thinking about going to so and so college because of whatever reason

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12 months ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

Siren wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Dragon_Lady wrote:
Tell whoever is performing the service you want your vows to say “For as long as love shall last”.

lol =D

yeah you could write your own vows.

how long is it until you want to move away? i think if you hit him with both then he might feel hes losing you. your bf should break it to him by asking permission.
and just casually bring up moving away, say your thinking about going to so and so college because of whatever reason

We’re just thinking about it. We both want to move. I just moved out of my dads house in sept and i moved like 2 mins away (cuz thats where my bf lives which is kinda funny, but it made my dad feel better when he realized i wan’t very far). I didn’t move out very well. It was kinda a leave my dad a note & take my belongings in the middle of the night, but due to the situation it was the only way i felt able to. I didn’t get along with my stepmom & i have a fear of confrontation & to avoid a big fight, my bf helped me move out.

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