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I am …

insecure.

I don’t want to be, but ever since my boyfriend shared some concerns he has about the relationship and where it’s going, I’ve been feeling insecure about how he feels about me. I hate the person I’ve become in the relationship — worrying about when/what he texts me, thinking he doesn’t want to spend time with me, maybe even being passive aggressive. HELP!! I don’t want to mess up the relationship, but I also want to know if his concerns are practical and if he would be happier ending the relationship. I love him and want what’s best for him, even if that means letting him go.

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Zenn offline Verified User (5 years) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (6 minutes after post)

We play Xbox til our eyes bleed, we watch the game on Saturdays, we drink beer and occasionally view inappropriate images on the internet. But that doesn’t mean that we wouldn’t shake the very heavens to receive the gift of our ladies smile.

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (1 hour, 46 minutes after post)

Maybe you should let him go. And he should let you go. And you can be with someone who doesn’t doubt you?

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