Confused, Unsure..I’m a mess…
So i have been lonely for five months now, I’m not enjoying it all :/. I want some one to love and care for and make happy…but right now I’m not sure what’s going on. My thoughts are mess, i don’t know if it’s out of desperation or what, but everytime I talk to one of my ex’s i start to feel these feelings that I like them again or something..I don’t know. Like for example: Me and my recent ex dated for two and 1/2 years. It was a bumpy relationship where we both cheated on each other (not proud of that decision and definetly, never ever ever doing that again), we both argued non-stop..we were opposites. Anywho, for some reason I feel like i miss her, I know for a fact that she misses me too because she still has pics of me on her facebook and she keeps sharing photos on there that say “It hurts to realize that your not as important to somebody, as you once thought you were” ..or something like that. I’m not sure what to think right now. My heart and mind is a complete mess…I’m not sure what to think anymore…i’m not sure if i actually do miss my ex, I’m not sure if i’m ready for a relationship (even though I want one really bad)..I’m not sure what my problem is…sometimes I think it’s unfair. I try to be that perfect guyI try to be sensitive but yet tough, i try to be romantic, i try to be goofy, I try to make a girl feel good about herself, i try to respect a girl, i try listening, i try everything and it seems like I’m bein backfired, like no one wants me (yet). ..can some one help me please? I really need help with this, i hate bein lonely…and please dont tell me “give it time and you’ll find your girl”, I’ve heard this a thousand times over from all sides of my family and practically every one I know..I need new advice, i need something that I can actually consider that you put some thought into, please….(I’m not depressed or anything , I just hate being lonely)..
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