After my third breakdown, in a year.
Doing Intensive Out PT Therapy, and I have been diagnosed with so many issues that I confused with what is really true. I grew in a lower middle working family, and my mother who swore and screamed for any so called infraction. My father worked about hours a week, was a alchoholic, and physically abusive. They do not handle money well and we have given almost new cars twice and paid their heat the past 5 years. We have yet heard thank you from either of them. but my uncle on my motherollr’s side was the worst, Every greeting was always “God your Ugly” or ” Being so ugly you should not be so stupid.”
So no male roll models and mother was either screaming and swearing and leaving me to answer all late payment
I know am rambling, the point of action is this treatment is still going on from age of 5/6 and many times continues and I will be 47 in Sept. I want get away emotionally from these people, My wife and daughter have very good relationships but my obsession making the relationships better will destroy my wife and daughter’s relationship.
When is it time get away from mother and father and extended family. I want to right now but I am not sure if I am rushing it
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