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ok i need advice…

this guy just told me he likes me so we have been texting. He asked me to play truth or dare so i said yes but know he is asking inappropriate questions. Ans he wants me to ask them too. I tryed to tell him i didnt want to but he keeps urging me on. What do i do?? How can i make him stop wanting to ask and have me ask unippropriate questions??

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Sparrowhawk offline Verified User (5 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Just ask him politely to stop. Tell him that you don’t want to speak about inappropriate things.

If he can’t accept that and continues to make you feel uncomfortable, end contact with him. Spend time with people who treat you with respect.

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (36 minutes after post)

I second that, just in case more opinions would increase the likelihood of you ending up spending time with people who treat you with respect.

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my_savann offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

hold your ground! always have standards for yourself. if you are not comfortable just tell him. Dont worry about what he might say or think about you if you dont.cua whats most important is that YOU are comfortable. If he keeps at it just ignore his text messages.

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roofdonkey offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (2 hours after post)

my_savann wrote:
hold your ground! always have standards for yourself. if you are not comfortable just tell him. Dont worry about what he might say or think about you if you dont.cua whats most important is that YOU are comfortable. If he keeps at it just ignore his text messages.

Yes.

Why do people think that everyone is obligated to respond to EVERY text, all the time, any time you get them, from anyone?

And no, you are not conceited or arrogant or stuck up if you ignore texts.
Thats asenine.

You pay for your cellphone. You are responsible for the content on it. You engage conversation on it at YOUR discretion and no one elses.

PS: good job everyone!I love these replies!

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caylee.lynn offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (3 hours, 17 minutes after post)

I agree. Tell him to stop. If he doesn’t, don’t reply to his texts. You shouldn’t be asked questions that make you uncomfortable. If he likes you enough, he’ll respect your wishes. If not, then he’s a jerk, and you shouldn’t waste your time on people who can’t respect your wishes.

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (19 hours, 37 minutes after post)

get away from that creep! good thing he isn’t there in person and is just bothering you via text, or it could get ugly. tell him you have to step away from your phone for a second to go meet your marines body builder boyfriend who served three years in prison for “accidental” manslaughter.
lol, maybe not be that dramatic. but seriously, you should tell him to be more respectful or just leave.

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