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I used to date this girl in highschool, its been some years.

We’ve rekindled as friends. Now I think I wanna give it another go. We are so comfortable with eachother I can’t really tell the line between closeness as friends and flirting so I’m just gonna have to go ahead and make a bold statement…

how the **** do I ask her out again?

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JustMoi offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (29 minutes after post)

For me there are two ways..

1) Play the card game, but play it right..

2) Tell her it was fate..

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (8 hours, 29 minutes after post)

Invite her some where that is more of a open social event. Like a concert in the park a day hanging out at the beach or lake or some community place…The zoo etc. So it does not seem like a solo date where just the two of you are alone.

Spend a day or few doing things like this and see where it goes.

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10 months, 4 weeks ago (11 hours, 35 minutes after post)

nolater wrote:
Invite her some where that is more of a open social event. Like a concert in the park a day hanging out at the beach or lake or some community place…The zoo etc. So it does not seem like a solo date where just the two of you are alone.

Spend a day or few doing things like this and see where it goes.

We do that all the time, I need to actually say it. Ask a question. Just wondering how to phrase it.

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nolateri offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (18 hours, 8 minutes after post)

Say something like! It’s so good to spend time with you again and has broughten back so many good felllings I have always cared for and have missed our time together! I want to date you again and spend time making this work! How do you feel about that.

Or say! How do you feel given another go at this….you know boyfriend girlfriend?

I don’t know just give her a magical kiss that rekindles the feelings you once shared….. just go for it!

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