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How can I stop enjoying being submissive?
By submissive I mean the person who believes what he is told.Not a very good liar.Pretty much tells the truth.Its hard to say no.Feels bad if says no.WHat I hate about it is that it leaves me open to being abused in all types of ways.I hate that I crave to be submissive.I mean in all things.I feel its part of my personality and I enjoy it.I realized that when I thought of people as friends they were really much just using me.I was naive.It hurt like hell cuz I spent 6 years crying about a person I cared about that abused me in that they didnt care about me yet I did.I was 15.I never felt like I lacked anything except their love,or they care I had for them.I met a new person and I am starting to realize that I am already leaving myself open to just give them what they want and then dumped.Remember I get pleasure from doing it but at the same time I hate that its short term.So yea any advice on how to stop being this passive submissive guy.Please be very convincing and show me the benefits of your advice.
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