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Why can’t I feel happy?

Don’t get me wrong, it isn’t like I would all the time feel sad etc, but last months I just feel like nothing goes like I want it to go. Yeah, when I’m with friends and so, I don’t show it, we all laugh and party etc. But when I’m alone, I feel like I need someone to talk to, to share my problems, but I can’t do that with my guy friends, I’m just not like that, we don’t talk about things like that in my family that much, and only girl I feel close to and can talk about stuff(but isn’t my girlfriend) I talk less and less to. SO I feel unhappy about that too, I have that feeling like things are not going well and everything is going to the worse. And I can’t get rid of that feeling, why???!

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

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icegirl.8 offline Verified User (11 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (53 minutes after post)

It’s normal to feel like this sometimes, but it’s good to have someone to talk about it. Cause if you don’t do it, it’s getting worse and you get more depressed. So if you don’t have someone to talk about, you can write me: i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>. I am a complete stranger for you :) so you can tell me anything, I will keep your secrets.

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japon4ikan offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (4 hours, 36 minutes after post)

icegirl.8 wrote:
It’s normal to feel like this sometimes, but it’s good to have someone to talk about it. Cause if you don’t do it, it’s getting worse and you get more depressed. So if you don’t have someone to talk about, you can write me: i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>. I am a complete stranger for you :) so you can tell me anything, I will keep your secrets.

Yeah but that ‘’I'm a complete stranger, you can tell me anything'’ sounds quite not the way I imagine. It’s hard to trust complete strangers. Ok, maybe not even that, but if you need to talk to someone, it’s harder to do it with someone you don’t know at all(they just don’t know the situation). Anyways, I know it’s normal to feel like that sometimes, but for me it’s like for all last year, with little pauses. I don’t know, I guess I need a girlfriend, or something, but with my sadness etc, it’s hard to be cheerful etc, and I don’t think it makes it easier to get one.

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Savanna_ offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 31 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (15 hours, 57 minutes after post)

You just want someone to feel close to and talk to.. and your earlier attempts of finding that person does not seem to have gone very well for you. I’m sorry. It is hard to find that person you feel comfortable sharing your thoughts with.. And am not trying to say “I’m a complete stranger, feel free to talk to me.” But I will open my email to you and my shoubox is open if you ever need someone to talk with. I understand a little about your situation and how it feels to have no one to confide in.

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