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I am a lesbian dating an FTM transman.

(female to male) we love each other so much and I really feel good with him. But he really wants the operation to become a real guy but I’m afraid I’m not going to love him like i do now once he gets his sex change.

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SlightlyUnique offline Verified User (4 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 4 weeks ago (44 minutes after post)

Comes down to happiness for me…

If your partner will not be happy as a female is it right for you to stop her find her(his?) happiness?

Do you love her/him enough to let them go if the worst happens?

Have you spoken about this with your partner?

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11 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 30 minutes after post)

Awww..intersting!!! Yea its best for him to hv the sex change agree, hv u guys talked about this? Do u think ur into her physically or personaity wise? I too im a les, but i would think hv the same fear as u. I believe u should suport him ether way since im sure this is important to him n see how u guys feelvin time.

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