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Should i get pregnant to keep him in my life?


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get_low offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (3 minutes after post)

NO

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (7 minutes after post)

no you are obviously too immature for a child

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An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (9 minutes after post)

This is what desperate and sad women do, and it never works. It only creates more problems, which then effects the life of this child who had no choice in the matter.

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Do not call users offensive names ANONYMOUS

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (15 minutes after post)

No, no, no! Bad idea!

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spiratec9 offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Burnaby, BC, CA | 11 months ago (25 minutes after post)

Definately not.Your setting yourself up to being a single mom
for the rest of your life.
A kid needs both parents.

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BigWilly! offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 53 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (25 minutes after post)

What they said.

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monkichirmo offline Verified User (4 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (30 minutes after post)

this has to be a troll… ’cause…really?

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verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (36 minutes after post)

Love just isn’t something that you can force with obligation. It would torture you and be bad for a million other reasons. You need a clean break.

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (7 years) Long Term User Shouts: 178 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (43 minutes after post)

Even if that ploy worked, the relationship would be based on manipulation not trust. How would you raise your child; to do the same? How do expect to PAY for the care of this child? Send him away to work 3 jobs while you stay at home? That wouldn’t last a year much less 20.

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MarlinTheFish offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (52 minutes after post)

if you were giving a press conference right now and I was a journalist in the audience, I would stand up and throw my shoe at you

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codmwjohnso offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (56 minutes after post)

No way, a kid needs to be brought into this world when it is time, not out of fear.

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Angie. offline Verified User (5 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 175 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

Hell no!

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Mariam* offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (2 hours, 3 minutes after post)

No. Doing that would ruin at least three lives.

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Nerd489 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (2 hours, 37 minutes after post)

No. That would not make them stay and your child would grow up in a bad situation.

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CallingAllAngels offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (10 hours, 13 minutes after post)

It’s hard enough to keep a guy that wants to be with you while you’re pregnant let alone trick someone into pregnancy. Trust me I’m pregnant, it’s definitely something you should wait for until you are with the right person. The person that wants to love you and you love them too.

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