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Should i get pregnant to keep him in my life?
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NO
no you are obviously too immature for a child
This is what desperate and sad women do, and it never works. It only creates more problems, which then effects the life of this child who had no choice in the matter.
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Definately not.Your setting yourself up to being a single mom
for the rest of your life.
A kid needs both parents.
Love just isn’t something that you can force with obligation. It would torture you and be bad for a million other reasons. You need a clean break.
Even if that ploy worked, the relationship would be based on manipulation not trust. How would you raise your child; to do the same? How do expect to PAY for the care of this child? Send him away to work 3 jobs while you stay at home? That wouldn’t last a year much less 20.
if you were giving a press conference right now and I was a journalist in the audience, I would stand up and throw my shoe at you
No way, a kid needs to be brought into this world when it is time, not out of fear.
No. Doing that would ruin at least three lives.
No. That would not make them stay and your child would grow up in a bad situation.
It’s hard enough to keep a guy that wants to be with you while you’re pregnant let alone trick someone into pregnancy. Trust me I’m pregnant, it’s definitely something you should wait for until you are with the right person. The person that wants to love you and you love them too.
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