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Is it ‘I wish I were a rich man’, or I wish I was a rich man’?


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mindhealer online Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 42 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (15 minutes after post)

I wish to be a rich man.

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mindhealer online Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 42 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (16 minutes after post)

‘Was’ and ‘were’ are past tense, so it would be silly to wish to be rich in the past. The past is done. Be rich now!

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (7 years) Long Term User Shouts: 178 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (23 minutes after post)

From Fiddler on the Roof, it is: “If I were a Rich Man”.

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (7 years) Long Term User Shouts: 178 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (24 minutes after post)

president mindhealer wrote:
I wish to be a man.

That about says it….

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mindhealer online Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 42 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (28 minutes after post)

southern_comfort, IP wrote:

president mindhealer wrote:
I wish to be a man.

That about says it….

That’s not one of my wishes…

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SeleneFaery offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (57 minutes after post)

Both are correct!!!!
“were” is more acceptable sort of. I would go with “were”.

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Positivemessylove offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (1 hour, 54 minutes after post)

I wish I could be a rich a man.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (3 hours, 13 minutes after post)

It depends upon the tense in which you are writing. Both can be correct in the proper context.

If you are referring to the song from Fiddler on the Roof it is “If I Were a Rich Man” la dee da dee da dee da dee da dee da dee da dee da all day long I’d fiddle with my thumbs, if I were a wealthy man.

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randomchatsmith offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (8 hours, 8 minutes after post)

It should be ‘were’.

When you speak of a hypothetical past, you use ‘were’ and not ‘was’.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (22 hours, 34 minutes after post)

What if you are speaking of a hypothetical present? Was?

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mindhealer online Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 42 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (22 hours, 42 minutes after post)

The point of a wish is to bridge the hypothetical and the actual, so “I wish to be rich” starts as hypothetical as it comes true into being actual.

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randomchatsmith offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (1 day, 8 hours after post)

Dr. Rrrrrrr wrote:
What if you are speaking of a hypothetical present? Was?

I am not sure of there is a special rule for a hypothetical present. :-) I do remember this one, so I spoke with some confidence. Let me not answer hastily without doing any research first. :-) (The answer may be simple though - once/after we know it.)

president mindhealer wrote:
The point of a wish is to bridge the hypothetical and the actual, so “I wish to be rich” starts as hypothetical as it comes true into being actual.

I guess you inferred this to be a situation in someone’s life and you suggested what to do. Perhaps the person just wanted to know what is an accurate sentence (since ‘were’ seemed odd).

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An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (1 day, 8 hours after post)

randomchatsmith wrote:

president mindhealer wrote:
The point of a wish is to bridge the hypothetical and the actual, so “I wish to be rich” starts as hypothetical as it comes true into being actual.
I guess you inferred this to be a situation in someone’s life and you suggested what to do. Perhaps the person just wanted to know what is an accurate sentence (since ‘were’ seemed odd).

I guess you’re saying that you have a perspective too…

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randomchatsmith offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (1 day, 8 hours after post)

president mindhealer wrote:

randomchatsmith wrote:
president mindhealer wrote:
The point of a wish is to bridge the hypothetical and the actual, so “I wish to be rich” starts as hypothetical as it comes true into being actual.
I guess you inferred this to be a situation in someone’s life and you suggested what to do. Perhaps the person just wanted to know what is an accurate sentence (since ‘were’ seemed odd).

I guess you’re saying that you have a perspective too…

Hope I don’t sound arrogant or something. Sometimes, words in such forums end up dividing people. That was not the intention.

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huqmokamme offline Verified User (7 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (3 months, 2 weeks after post)

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pl gave me that.Without any condition.This money help my family.
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mindhealer online Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 42 #
An Undisclosed Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (3 months, 2 weeks after post)

randomchatsmith wrote:

president mindhealer wrote:
randomchatsmith wrote:
president mindhealer wrote:
The point of a wish is to bridge the hypothetical and the actual, so “I wish to be rich” starts as hypothetical as it comes true into being actual.
I guess you inferred this to be a situation in someone’s life and you suggested what to do. Perhaps the person just wanted to know what is an accurate sentence (since ‘were’ seemed odd).

I guess you’re saying that you have a perspective too…

Hope I don’t sound arrogant or something. Sometimes, words in such forums end up dividing people. That was not the intention.

You didn’t seem arrogant or anything to me. I just replied as appropriately as I knew.

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randomchatsmith offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 1 week ago (3 months, 3 weeks after post)

lifelover wrote:

randomchatsmith wrote:
president mindhealer wrote:
randomchatsmith wrote:
president mindhealer wrote:
The point of a wish is to bridge the hypothetical and the actual, so “I wish to be rich” starts as hypothetical as it comes true into being actual.
I guess you inferred this to be a situation in someone’s life and you suggested what to do. Perhaps the person just wanted to know what is an accurate sentence (since ‘were’ seemed odd).

I guess you’re saying that you have a perspective too…

Hope I don’t sound arrogant or something. Sometimes, words in such forums end up dividing people. That was not the intention.

You didn’t seem arrogant or anything to me. I just replied as appropriately as I knew.

Great. :-)

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