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I met a guy..he is 22 years old and i am 21 years old..we

started dating for aout two months now..well thing is our communication is low bc of the distance..which i absoulutly hate..he wants to marry me and etc..but i come to realization he is a great guy but i dont know if i wanna get married at this age yet..or even have a kid or children yet…I really wanna focus on becoming a singer..and he is trying to become a rapper..which he is very good at..ut ..right now ilook at him and he is a um..he lost his job..someone wrecked his car..hr had his house burn down..an he lives with his grandma and mom and bro..that is not bad tho..im just talking about the other stuff before it..he monitors when i put my statuses up..he texts me non stops or tries to vall and sometimes he has a temr or questions me..idk if i wanna be with him anymore..like i said he is a great guy ..ut it dont feel right..on the other hand there is another guy..who is successful,smart,fun,loving military man..we give eachother space,,but we talk on skype each night and just have fun..i think he is the one but idk..idk what to do to tell guy number one..bc i dont wanna hurt nobody..nobody does..we all looking for love..what should i do?

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Positivemessylove offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

you should do what YOU want, because you’re the only one you’ve got to worry about when it comes to regret. You don’t have to smash guy number 1’s feeling to pieces and crap all over his heart, just be honest and tell him it doesn’t feel right. And if you want to pursue guy number 2, then do that. Don’t be with the wrong person.
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MaddyBee offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

Hey, you can take a risk to make a change, or settle down and possibly regret it forever. I would go with military man. And hey, even if he isn’t the one…life goes on.

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