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Another guy confusion question.
Ok, let’s see…this guy that I’ve liked for as long as I can remember came back from University for the summer, and I was busy all year with dance, so I didn’t really give him much thought. (Last year he texted me but it was kind of awkward and I could tell he wasn’t really into me, he would rather be with his friends and whatever) So anyway, he showed up in our church for the first time since being back, and when I saw him my heart dropped, as it always would, and boy did he look good! I thought maybe he would talk to me and catch up. Anyway, the service was over and the pastor caught him in a really long conversation, and the whole time I would catch him glimpsing at me. So anyway I was talking with someone else, and when I turned around he was gone. Ugh! What a jerk. So then I went to a meeting afterwards, and then I noticed he texted me. Woo! He opened with “Sorry I didn’t say hi to you in church, I was just in a really long conversation” So then we just had small conversation: what we wanted to do “when we grew up,” teasing each other about mother’s day gifts, etc. And then I couldn’t stop thinking about him, so the following friday I finally asked if he wanted to hang out. He said yes, and said monday would work for him. So monday, he texted me at 4:00 asking if we were still “chilling” that night. Well duh! So i asked if he had anything in mind, and he said “haha what do you do in such a small town?” and then I listed off a couple of typical things, just kept it light, and then it was 6:00. I asked again what he thought. Then it was 8:00. Still no response. So I was done. And since that night, no response. I have noooo idea what the heck happened there. It isn’t my job to keep texting this guy; gushing over him. But I still can’t help but think about him. He’s on my facebook and he posts fairly regularly, like everything is normal. What’s going on guys? What do you think happened? And if you have the answer, what do you think I should do?
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