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hi i have a very sad situation on my hands..i meet

a girl on line about a year and a half ago..we kicked off great i liked her alot then it turned into love..she felt the same we were crazy about eachothe.we lived like 85 miles from eachother we were ginna meet on spring break and spend time together.a week before spring break her grandpa in isreal had a heartatac so she told me she.was going out there with her mom and family fir like a month..well one month turned into five monthes..so while she was away we still managedto text every day and night she told me she.was home sick and wanted to come home to me evwry day..then one day in july she had a plane that she was going yo run away and by sneaking out in the middle of the night she had bought her ticket and told me how is was gonna work she was to arrive her aug 15 and i was to pick her up at LA airpor…so i was pretty happy she was finally coming home..about two weeks later her dad found out somehow what she was going to do and she said that he said if she leaves shes never welcome home and im never welcome over..so she asked me what do i want her to do she said if i want her to leave shell leave..i told hwr i didnt want her to have any problems with her dad and mom so i just told her to.wait the weeks wen they all come back on september 10..so we agreed on that..three weeks past and we were so excited it was the happiest time of my life we twxt that morning she was going to.leave and she said she will texte when she gets to london..so like 5 hours later she.text me ..hi im in london i was happy she was.on her way she said when tjey get to new york shw was going to call me..i was so happy couse when i got off work on that saturday i was going to meet her at her houseso she said she lovwd me and shell call me in like 8 hours wen they arrived in NY..it would have been like 5 my time here..so time came and went i was waiting for her call it was getting late and i started to get worried..so i stayed at a freinds house waiting for her call and i never got one..morning came and i thought maybe a plane delay i didnt know..so that morning i checked my emails and there was one from her brother saying..i know what you ment.to her but wen they we’re in ny she.went outside to call me and while she was outside she hot hit by a shuttle van and died..my heart sank :( i didn’t know what to do and he said to leave my number couse there uncle wanted to talk to me..noone ever called me.do i looked hatd into it and gound out it was a lie her dad just didnt want.me with her..i am so heart broken over this all i do.is wait for her text or call..her dad shut her phone off and erased her facebook i habe no contact with her just the city she lives in sometimes i wonder if she ever miasea me or anything..she was my world.for.that 10 monthsand i still love her and think abouth her everyday..can someone please give me advice on what to do im so lost with this..thats my story tnanks gor reading and please help if you can..

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Anonymous #
10 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

You can do the romantic thing and track her down, but there is no guarantee there will be a good outcome, or you could do what everyone does (or at least tries to do) after heartbreak and move on in the hope of finding someone new.

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

That is very odd. How old is she? If her father can legally do what he did, then either she is too young for you, or you need to wait until you are both too old to be controlled by parents. Sneaking is bad. She’ll wait if she loves you and vice versa, but if you encouraged your young girlfriend to sneak, maybe you aren’t mature enough for a relationship.

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10 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

“i checked my emails and there was one from her brother saying..i know what you ment.to her but wen they we’re in ny she.went outside to call me and while she was outside she hot hit by a shuttle van and died..my heart sank :(”

I’m sorry for your loss. Grief counselling or peer support on bereavement might help. Take one day at a time. In time, the pain won’t be quite as intense.
Best of Luck to you.

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
I’m sorry for your loss. Grief counselling or peer support on bereavement might help. Take one day at a time. In time, the pain won’t be quite as intense.
Best of Luck to you.

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gound out it was a lie her dad just didnt want.me with her

Unless I misunderstand, I don’t think she is dead.

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