girl help: So the other night a girl spent the night and asked if I wanted to cuddle.

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So the other night a girl spent the night and asked if I wanted to cuddle.

I said yes and all was good, the problem now is I don’t know how to continue thus. I wasn’t to ask her to dinner or to hang out, but don’t want to hit her up the day after, or freak her out. What’s your suggestion in how to make this work. Any advice is good advice

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monkichirmo 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

lol!!! yes, you should ‘hit her up’. i wouldn’t worry about the when, just do it whenever your usual is. i wouldn’t really make it a date either, just say you want to hang out.

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

just ask! go for it! whats the worst that could happen!! :)

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Dr. Ralph 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

I would go up to her and ask her if she wanted to cuddle again tonight. After about the third cuddle night if nothing is happening you start cuddling with someone else.

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nolateri 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (54 minutes after post)

I would wait 3 days……..then ask her out. This way your not acting overly excited and then when you do call she will be more excited that you want to see her again.

The 3 day things has worked well for others in the past.

Just a suggestion!

Good Luck!

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Dr. Ralph 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

In three days she will be cuddling with your best friend..

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

Ask her for a coffee…that’s less date like than a dinner and it’s better than hanging out without a proper plan of what will happen ;)

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nolateri 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

Then she is a get around cuddler……..lol

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In three days she will be cuddling with your best friend..

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An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 40 minutes after post)

I would wait at least one full day. Then again, I’m not a guy.

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Araz 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 16 minutes after post)

I would ask her the next day. It would kind of irritate me off if a guy didn’t call/text me the day after we first spent the night together.

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