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I want to stop the pain.

I have been taking care of people one way or another my whole life. I an a nanny. I live with the people that i take care of. I am married. I barely see the man i am married too. He is not working and can’t seem to find a job. I have not spoken to my family for years. I have no friends and no life. I just want to stop feeling like i am carrying everyone in my life. I just want to lay down and quietly go away so these people can’t depend on my anymore. I dont want to hear the lies. I dont want to hear the well meaning suggestions that just make me feel worst. Please help me.

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tly27lyoder_98 offline Verified User (10 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

thank you for noticing me.

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Help me with: two old ladies with way too much time on their hands what to read 100 classic novels.
tly27lyoder_98 offline Verified User (10 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

wow you posted a fitness article that i need to workout more be skinny and then i will feel better about myself. thanks that was so helpful. It was just the same lame advice i got from everyone else around me. This kind of advice I really dont need. I dont need to feel worst about myself then I already do.

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Help me with: two old ladies with way too much time on their hands what to read 100 classic novels.
verge offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (50 minutes after post)

Don’t get upset about that, sometimes people randomly advertise here. You seem to be carrying a terrible burden. You have been strong, perhaps it is time for you to cast some of your troubles away. Stop carrying people. I wish you the best. I hope your life becomes happier :)

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justice82n offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (2 hours, 26 minutes after post)

Something I feel should be reinforced in our society a little more: It is OKAY to break down. If you should break down by any means.. let people know.

Let me put it metaphorically for you. Say… you have been guiding a group of wounded individuals to safety in some emergency situation. Feeding them, counciling them, treating their wounds. Adventually, your resources become spread too thin as an individual. You become tired, broken and thus, wounded yourself. Do you really think that all those people you assisted, treated and helped would sit and watch you die?

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (3 hours, 14 minutes after post)

tly27lyoder_9 wrote:
wow you posted a fitness article that i need to workout more be skinny and then i will feel better about myself. thanks that was so helpful. It was just the same lame advice i got from everyone else around me. This kind of advice I really dont need. I dont need to feel worst about myself then I already do.

Anyway, this zimbio-thing is advertisement only. (And this odd zimbio reply is reported.)

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tly27lyoder_98 offline Verified User (10 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (3 hours, 37 minutes after post)

that is exactly what they would do, like locust.

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