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I’m 18 and recently married it should be a happy time

I know but in the same month before my wedding and graduation my father comited suicide by jumping of the pier with fishing rope attached he did this In front of me I was the one to find and identify his body as it was cut down then a few weeks later my brother and the only persons to ever care for me and understood me was on his way to a cherety event in cabo Mexico when the camper he was asleep in fell of and was hit by a government tanker 2 hour from the event I have no clue how to deal with this at all I have held the tears in I will not allow my self to cry I am now the oldest in my family and I must be the strongest for my mother and younger sister at the hospital after my father was announced brain dead a man came forward one of my brothers friends and my fathers best friend and I was told that he was my biological father … I could not find any way to cope besides thoughts of cutting I cut when I was younger and it always made me feel better but because of how my father died I feel it would kill my mother what should I do I’m so lost in this world with out my brother

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verge 134 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (6 minutes after post)

I’m so sorry for your losses. All of that sounds horrific. You can not cut though. Do not give in. You need to hold yourself together. Make sure that your family knows how you are feeling so that they can support you, you don’t have to be alone.

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Hanging angel 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (27 minutes after post)

Thx for the advice I think I will keep my feelings from my mother but I think I know a way to cope with my brother he was into helping ppl I think I’ll try that for him pick up wear he left off

verge 134 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (28 minutes after post)

That sounds like a great idea. Helping can be very therapeutic.

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aryanshah1989 9 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (2 hours, 19 minutes after post)

so sorry to hear that,be strong,hard days comes and go.You are now married,you have now more responsibilities towards you family and new family.Share you feelings with your husband,he will understand you and help you to deal with this situation.Take care

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The Sherlockian 41 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (9 hours, 33 minutes after post)

Here’s my own worldview: life throws things at us that we cannot get through without trust in God.

I hope you will talk to a pastor about what you have suffered.

I truly and sincerely believe that we will see our loved ones again. And I truly and sincerely believe that God will wipe away every tear one day.

I have experienced personal deliverance when I thought that deliverance was impossible.

I pray that you will also soon know peace!

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Hanging angel 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (5 days after post)

my uncles a pastor he didnt help

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (2 weeks, 4 days after post)

Still up with nightmares hasn’t gotten easier but getting my mom ready to movie and packing my things to send to my husband has been keeping me busy and my mind off things and my mother went back to work yesterday and I haven’t seen her this happy in a while my sisters keeping busy too and is going to camp for a week besides nightmares I’m doing better

verge 134 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (2 weeks, 4 days after post)

I’m so glad you are doing better. I hope you keep getting better and better. Stay strong, treat yourself well :)

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The Sherlockian 41 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (2 weeks, 5 days after post)

See somebody other than your uncle . . . someone you can completely open up to.

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