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how can my childhood friend who is my bf’s female bff judge me like she knows me?
I haven’t seen her or associated with her over 10 years until I met my boyfriend who is his bff. Let’s call her Tina he also have two other bffs.
Tina is the type who likes to cause drama and acts are princessy and b***tchy. Anyways she told my bf that I was no the right girl for him and that I’m still in the party mode and probably won’t settle down anytime soon. I’m 25 and he’s turning 29. Then Tina told him that she can’t see me as the girl I was back then. She said whole bunch of crap about me. First of all, she barely knows me since we haven’t seen each other in years. Second of all, I barely went clubbing in the past and I only see her twice at the clubs. I only started partying more since I met more friends there since my brother is a DJ and I get automatic hookups. She on the other hand partied almost every week and sleeps with guys and is 28 and still not married.
How can she judge me and talk crap about me when she’s sleeping with guys and partying all the time? Since I met my boyfriend I barely went clubbing. Today he was suppose to celebrate his bday with his 3 bffs, but he doesn’t want to because he wants to spend the whole day and alone time with me which I think its reasonable. Tina says, o i see how it is, i thought we bffs, but no, you just wanna hang out with ur gf. I don’t know why she has to be jealous of me. it seems as if she doesn’t like it that I’m her childhood friend and taking her bff away from her? I just can’t think of any other way why she would be jealous of me and judge me before getting to know me and what I been doing since we last met.
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