friends help: how can my childhood friend who is my bf’s female bff judge me like she knows me? - Help.com

she is just jealous of you.You have a bf and she doesn’t have any one who can pleasure her,though she sleeps with other guys.Just ignore her,that will be great.Or else if you want a permanent solution why she is doing this,take her out someday when you find her,probably in the club,grab her hand and tell her in strong voice that “we need to talk”. I think that will help more

It kind of sucks to be best friends with someone who starts dating. Friends always get neglected for significant others. So, if they spend birthdays together every year and he’s bailing on them for a girlfriend, that can sting.

(Are all three of his bffs girls? Bc, if so, that’s odd.)

She might be jealous, but probably not because she wants to be with him romantically or that she wishes she had a man. (The single life isn’t bad all the time-I personally LOVE clubbing and acting my age-25. I don’t think I’m immature for that.)

I think she’s jealous because you’re “taking away her BFF”.

PS Did your bf tell you she said these things? Because, if so, that’s… weird.

I would try to befriend this girl. You gotta be good with his friends. In the end, girls come and go, but friends are much more long term.

Yea i find it strange he has 3 female bffs, but I also have few guy bffs haha, but I only consider one as my true bff since HS. She is not in love with him. She always be dissing him and talking s***. I think he had a gf last year too. We been going out since like February. My bf is trying to stay away from them as much as possible. Just hang out with them once in awhile to catch up. His friends do cause a lot of drama which is why its so hard for them to hang out. Yesterday there were a lot of drama between him and his friends and bringing him in the middle of it too.

Which is why I don’t wanna get to close to neither of them. I already described one of his bff Tina, the other one acts black and thinks she knows everything, and the last one can be rude and hard to talk to. I don’t know how he can be so friends with them. This is probably why me and him became a couple because I don’t cause drama like they do and I’m pretty understanding person. Don’t throw tantrums and such.

Wow, that’s so weird though. I guess since I’m a girl I don’t get it. See, this is what I see when I hang out with groups of friends:

A group of girls: GUARANTEED drama

A group of guys: NO drama

So thats why when a girl hangs out with guy friends, I don’t think it’s weird at all. When a guy hangs out with a bunch of girls, though… Yeah that’s weird.

Well, screw those girls then. He doesn’t even want to be friends with them. Haters gonna hate and they’re probably always going to talk s*** because they have nothing better to do. He should get new friends. (Other than your friends too lol bc then there might be too much togetherness lol)

Well the thing I don’t like is when he tells them stuff that happens between us which I think is awkward and I don’t know how to confront him about since I’m wasn’t suppose to know about. I found out that his friend told me he said that I need to get my s*** together and stop being lazy. One thing he has yet to know about me is that I’m a really hard worker and always try to improve myself.

Anyways his friends aren’t the type to even give good advices, they just say a whole bunch of crap while I have friends who gives me good advice and not things I want to hear, but things that I should hear.

yes its weird for a guy to hang out with all girls, but there is also a guy in the clique that went to las vegas with all girls. I can never make friends with girls who cause drama. That’s why I make friends with guys easily than girls and I’m somewhat a tomboy, into sports and games and share the same interests. But i don’t see how his frineds fit into this category, but they do act alike though.

Wow, I’m not trying to stir up trouble here, but if my guy said I was “lazy and needed to get my s*** together” he would become my ex. See, my friends talk about our relationships a the time. Never like that, though.

I know it’s not easy, but if it’s meant to be, there has to be 100% honesty and communication. I would tell him what his friend said to you. If he’s going to be talking s***, he better be able to handle the consequences.

yea u know. I don’t want his friends to know stuff about me that negative. I was going to confront him about this but my friend told me not to since I wasn’t suppose to know about it and it might cause drama with his bff. I mean he’s a good guy and sweet, but he needs to know when to keep his mouth shut and be mature. Some of the stuff he says aren’t very mature and he’s 29. Do you have a boyfriend? lol