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Hi..

I,m 40 now…& my wife is 36.
my married life is 16 yrs.

recently i found that she got affair with other guys,,
every moment she is lying …
i got 100s of proofs ….but steel she is doing such things,,,,,

i can’t take these any more..
i am dying inside ………..

what should i do ?????
can any please give me a advise…………..?

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An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (20 minutes after post)

first. refuse to be hurt or be emotional about it.

second. acknowledge she’s a cheat regardless the lies and excuses.

third. decide where u want to go from there.. keep her or let her go..

fourth.. with your decision you’re going to have to put some work in to it if she’s a keeper, otherwise you can either go on separation or follow thru the pain of divorce, whichever suits you.

fifth.. look after yourself.

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