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I always feel lonely.

I feel like I will never be happy again. I’ve been to counselling and stuff like that but I feel like it’s not helping! I can’t sleep sometimes I don’t eat, then I eat A LOT! To much I should say. I get almost everything I want. But I feel like I don’t deserve it in anyway. Sometimes I wish I was dead. Then maybe everyone’s life would be much simpler. Without me.
I don’t know what to do. I can’t tell my Best friend. I can’t tell my mom. She’ll just FREAK!
I’m always sleeping, and I’m always tired. I also have headaches… That will never go away. I’m starting to cry myself to sleep every night. I’m scared. I just don’t know what to do anymore. I feel like I have no one there for me. To help my through stuff like this. I need help.
I have no friends! Most of my family back at home practically hate me…
I just don’t see why I have a reason for living!

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Zirbel offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

I’ve been to counselling and stuff like that but I feel like it’s not helping

What kind of “stuff like that”?
You need a professional therapist, psychiatrist/psychologist, for a talk therapy or a behavioral therapy, and perhaps you need some medication too.
BUT YOU have to participate ACTIVELY!
And: It takes some time! There is no instant help in such a situation.
 
“How to Deal With Loneliness”:
http://www.wikihow.com/Deal-With-Lone…

“5 ways to beat loneliness”:
http://besthealthmag.ca/embrace-life/…

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just here for help offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 3 minutes after post)

i see… i understand… you are depress alot too…
just read some articles about depression, keep yourself busy, believe in yourself and do your best, you didnt mentioned how old are you but i guess you are under30 and life wont be the same in future
i wish you luck but also you should try and find the solutions too

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10 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 42 minutes after post)

Please try to eat a balanced diet. Lack of certain nutrients can cause depression!

Good luck!

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nolateri offline Verified User (11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (8 hours, 17 minutes after post)

what has or is going on in your life? You need to get to the root of your depression then find out what tools your need to learn to cope with life on a more postivie level. Can you share more?

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n8ive.guurl7 offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

I’ve had lots of people from my old school who always put me down and said I wasn’t good enough or I was a loner and I had no friends.. I believed it because It felt like I had no one. I’ve also been to court once last year… for something that had happened a couple of years ago. Also My mom is drinking a lot. I just dont know what to do.

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