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Ok, so I posted something about a month and a half ago that defines my liking of a girl I know I shouldn’t like.

My best friends 16 year old sister. I am 21. I am physically attracted to her and I know I’m a creep but for some reason, I can’t help it. I literally hate myself for being this way. Today I saw up her shorts and saw her underwear. I now know i am the biggest piece of **** in the world, but I still cannot stop. Should I tell my friend and risk losing him as a friend, or should I silently suffer, or should I tell her how I feel and risk losing my friend and also being labeled as a creeper and not be able to hang out at his house. I need help, not just from a website but from a therapist. For now, this will have to suffice.

This open post was written 10 months, 4 weeks ago | V/U/S: 291, 2, 3 | Edit Post | Leave a reply | Report Post


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Anonymous #
10 months, 4 weeks ago (2 hours, 7 minutes after post)

Listen. You can’t help being attracted to whomever you’re attracted to. It’s okay! It happens. It’s totally normal. Physical attraction can be weird, but it’s completely normal. However, it’s how you react that matters. I wouldn’t pursue her if I were you. It’d be too weird for the best friend. It is never wrong to like or want things, even if they’re weird desires. But sometimes acting on your desires can be a bad idea.

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Anonymous #
10 months, 4 weeks ago (2 hours, 35 minutes after post)

Leave it a few years. Or try avoid your friends house.
When you know his younger sister will be there.
But attraction is a major thing. Only if it’s mutual.

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