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I don’t think I’m in love with him.

I’m starting to think it’s just infatuation… Maybe I don’t love him, I probably love the way he makes me feel. Should I tell him this? I was thinking about asking for a bit of space because my mind feels clustered with thoughts. I want some time alone to think, which I find hard since I always think about him. I don’t know… I feel strange.

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Anonymous #
11 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Always be open and honest in any relationship.

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Dragon_Lady offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months ago (1 hour, 26 minutes after post)

I probably love the way he makes me feel.
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What is wrong with that?

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Anonymous #
10 months, 4 weeks ago (12 hours, 59 minutes after post)

Dragon_Lady wrote:
I probably love the way he makes me feel.
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What is wrong with that?

That’s not love, that is using someone for your own personal gain.

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Dragon_Lady offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (16 hours, 27 minutes after post)

EVERY relationship is two people using each other to some extent.

Why do you love a man? Because he makes you happy.
Why does a man love a woman? Because she makes him happy.

End of story.

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Dr. Ozy offline Verified User (6 years) Long Term User Shouts: 34 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 4 weeks ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

whose happiness comes first? his? or yours?

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