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Big family fight. I socked my husband in the jaw cause he was going after me. My son is pretty alienated. Crisis services dissed me. I feel totaled.
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Big family fight. I socked my husband in the jaw cause he was going after me. My son is pretty alienated. Crisis services dissed me. I feel totaled.
You feel what? Can you explain more??? Did he call the cops on you for hitting him? You need to explain more if you want advice here.
I was about to call them and he tried to get my phone. I actually wrested it away from him even though i have a bad arm from work. Then he tried to fight me and i socked him in the jaw. Not my usual capacities.
What are you saying about crisis center dissing you? Where they rude? Unhelpful? How long have you been married? And what is the fighting all about?
Good job on socking him if he was coming at you……..if this is a noraml life with him fighting and etc it is time to get out! Your son alinetating himself is his way of dealing with the fighting. It’s not good he is around this.
If you are afraid to leave and have no resources call a womans shelter for abused woman with children they will give you a safe place to stay and help you! Get a restraining order on him.
Ithanks but i dont really think the shelter would be an improvement. I dont get attacked often and i was really letting him have it verbally when he did it. Then he lost momentum when i hit him and left me alone. Hes just a guy with problems not really an abuser.
I would say o e incident like this every four years at this point.
Then why did you call a crisis center if it is not that bad? To me if a guy hits you once he will do it again. You have to decide what you want to live with. maybe counseling would help!
Most importantly is your son is the innocent one here and is the victim if their is fighting and aguring going on around him. If you need to argue with him then don’t do it around your son. One day he will be on here posting “I can’t take it anymore”….not trying to be mean but these are the facts. If its effecting you it is effecting him.
Get some counseling and set bonadries with your husband on what should and should not be said or done in front of your son.
You both as parents are responsible for your childs health and well being. He is the one paying for your problems deep inside. And this is not fair to him.
I was only come across the the dialogue and I’m not understand whats the problem for u if you are not considered the issue is bad!
and How old is your son?
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An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (19 hours, 31 minutes after post)
What do you want us to say?
Give advice on what or do? Or show sympathy for you?
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (19 hours, 33 minutes after post)
Actually I think we need more info. Like how are you feeling right now
Im okay. I just wanted to talk about it. Anyone who objects thats their problem.
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (19 hours, 55 minutes after post)
Its good you want to talk about it. It makes things easier especioully us not noing who you are and vice versa. Helps alot doesn’t it
shut up you twelve year old.lemonlimedefenc wrote:
Its good you want to talk about it. It makes things easier especioully us not noing who you are and vice versa. Helps alot doesn’t it
SERIOUSLY! You diffenantly have issues and are very RUDE!!!! Is this how you talk to your 12 year old son?????? No wonder your husband goes after you. Your son deserve a mother with a much better attitude…….your on the wrong site if that is how you are going to be treating people here who are only trying to help!! BTW DM responder is 14 not that that adds in flavor to your attitude! DB
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lemonlimedefenc wrote:shut up you twelve year old.
Its good you want to talk about it. It makes things easier especioully us not noing who you are and vice versa. Helps alot doesn’t it
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