I need advice.
I’m a newly wed to a man who doesn’t contribute ANYTHING financially. I make a very good living and he works as a waiter. We had a financial agreement as to what his contribution would be before we got married. He has never once met that obligation. I pay for EVERYTHING… His car, his phone, his insurance, our home bills, etc. I asked him to get a better job or to get a second job and he bucked. His response was “but I would have to work everyday,” “it’s a lot of work,” and” but we couldn’t go on trips.” I’m sick of being his mommy. His response made me ill. I work anywhere from 40-100 hours a week, and he MIGHT pull 30 hours a week. We have a prenuptial agreement, so that what I came into the marriage with (two houses), would be mine in the event of divorce. I’ve asked him to make a counseling appointment, which he hasn’t done. Should I leave? I do love him, but I know that love doesnt make a marriage last a lifetime… Need outside advice
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