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Don’t Look For Something You Can’t Find.

I have tried many times to see why i fell for this guy, he’s mean, rude, uncaring, and (not to be mean) completly unattractive. and yet we dated for like four months. When we were dating it was different, but now since we broke up, he’ll text me at random times saying how much of a b**** i am, or other things like that.
I told him to stop once, but he didn’t, it drove me so insane i attempted suicide. i wanted to, and yet i couldn’t bring myself to it. I wanted to tell my mom, but she wouldn’t understand.

I haven’t been myself recently, and i just don’t know what to do about it.

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An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

I suppose it’s porbably obvious that you have bigger problems than some guy if you attempted suicide. Ignore the guy and work on yourself. Seriously, think about it — if one person emotionally harrassing you can end your life, you’re in a very risky position because it is a very cruel and violent world. Telling your mom is probably a prudent and wise idea.

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 52 minutes after post)

Talk to your mom asap. Tell her everything about how you are feeling. He is just being a DUMB A## because his ego is hurt. Stupid huh! But some guy’s will act this way. Do not respond to any of his text messages and don’t read them hit DELETE DELETE DELETE don’t waste your time…

And PLEASE talk to your mom thats what moms are for. Also SouthernComfort has a point about some other underlining issue to even think about suicide. Maybe your just saying the thought crossed your mind but either way there is more to this.

Also what is going on with your self esteem to even date some guy like this…..you need to focus on your self right now and have positive things and people around you. You are so much better then this and life has something better out there just waiting for you to grab ahold of it.

Do yourself a HUGE favor and don’t date anyone for awhile….get inside yourself and deal with other issues that are bothering you. The only way you will be able to find a good relationship is for you to be in a better state of mind so you will make better decisions.

Thanks for sharing and remember DELETE DELETE DELETE this is the big word for the week!

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10 months, 1 week ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

dont let him get you down, chin up your better then he was change your number, get a restraining order, talk to someone that you trust. surrond people who care about you friends, animals etc there are better people out there you deserve better people, keep smiling because your beautiful. hang in there

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