girl help: How to attract a coworker.

Bl00dy D.3.4.T.H.

How to attract a coworker.

I’ve been working at a restaurant for about 2 months and his one girl really caught my eye. She’s not exceptionally pretty but she makes me smile and she’s nice. I feel like we kind of have a connection but im not sure if it’s just the natural niceness she exudes because of work or if she is genuinely into me. Help?

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Kitty #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

DO NOT date coworkers! If you really think she’s worth it, get another job and THEN go after her. I’m serious about this. I JUST learned this lesson. Actually, I’m right in the middle of it. DON’T do it.

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Bl00dy D.3.4.T.H. 15 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

Kitty wrote:
DO NOT date coworkers! If you really think she’s worth it, get another job and THEN go after her. I’m serious about this. I JUST learned this lesson. Actually, I’m right in the middle of it. DON’T do it.

May I ask why?

Help me with: My job cheated me out of money.

roofdonkey 8 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Kitty wrote:
DO NOT date coworkers! If you really think she’s worth it, get another job and THEN go after her. I’m serious about this. I JUST learned this lesson. Actually, I’m right in the middle of it. DON’T do it.

Correct.
Bad idea dont do it.

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Kitty #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Bl00dy D.3.4.T.H. wrote:

Kitty wrote:
DO NOT date coworkers! If you really think she’s worth it, get another job and THEN go after her. I’m serious about this. I JUST learned this lesson. Actually, I’m right in the middle of it. DON’T do it.

May I ask why?

I have to go for now. Someone explain!

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roofdonkey 8 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

It is a bad idea is why.
Dont pee in the place you eat. (sorry for being so graphic)

Its very simple.
If something goes wrong (its a relationship, hello?)
Or if things go right (you still have to work)
It will interfere with your performance at work.

Relationships require effort and application of attention and dedication.
You will not be able to extend this if you see the person on a day in and day out basis.
You will quickly TIRE of this person or get on each others nerves.

Do NOT look for nor obtain a relationship at the workplace.

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Bl00dy D.3.4.T.H. 15 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

I don’t see her often enough to worry about that :P

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Anonymous #
10 months, 3 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

Why don.t you just tell her you thin she is nice And makes you smile,and that you would like to do (something specific) with her outside of work. After you do whatever than you can get a feel if there is any chemistry and than go from there.

Kitty #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 30 minutes after post)

If you have a break up, you will inevitably have to see her. Ideally for most people I think, after a break up, you never have to see their face again. But if you date a coworker, even if you don’t see them around all the time, you will still have to see them. And you will have to deal with those emotions every time, while you’re at work! Especially at a resturant you will have to put on a happy face for the customers which is difficult when you’re dealing with your ex.

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roofdonkey 8 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 39 minutes after post)

Kitty wrote:
If you have a break up, you will inevitably have to see her. Ideally for most people I think, after a break up, you never have to see their face again. But if you date a coworker, even if you don’t see them around all the time, you will still have to see them. And you will have to deal with those emotions every time, while you’re at work! Especially at a resturant you will have to put on a happy face for the customers which is difficult when you’re dealing with your ex.

Even if you have argument!

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Zirbel 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (6 hours, 36 minutes after post)

Hands off!
Affairs with co-workers lead directly to BIG troubles at your work place.

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