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This girl and I seem like we got some good chemistry,

but after some turn of events sounds like she is getting back with an ex, she told me in person he stayed with her, so does this mean she was never interested? I am just really confusd about the whole situation. I asked her out kind of soon after they broke up to a movie she said she would feel like she was cheating, n I kno she was talkin to her mom about me, I just need a different perspective

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Crumpet♡Strumpet offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

I think maybe you were too quick to try to start a relationship with her. It sounds like she is still getting over her ex, and hasn’t lost all her feelings for him. It could be that she decides she wants to be with him again or it could be she processes the relationship and decides they are better apart. Either way it takes time to come to that decision, when that happens perhaps you can be together. But at the moment it sounds like she may need space

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

Contrary to what some would tell you, most people can have romantic feelings for more than one person at once - so she probably does like you. But that doesn’t mean the drama is worth it. I think you should back away and wait for someone a bit more stable at this point in their life - I’m not saying she’s always like this, but “the right person at the wrong time is the wrong person.”

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10 months, 3 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

That makes sense, and idk she is kinda amazing, ha but yeah the ex thing kinda worries me, I’m just gonna ride this one out see where it takes me, she is cool so either way ill have a pretty awesome friend or pretty awesome girl

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