Love help: I have a boyfriend Nicky but we’ve been fighting ALOT so - Help.com

you like the fighting, see if Josh is interested

yes but the not good in a relationship

See what Josh is like, maybe you’ll see fighting is wrong & hurtful

Well I’m flattered and happy to try to help :)

I think you need to decide right now which man will make you happier. Only you can do this :) Weigh it out carefully and then decide. If you and your boyfriend have gotten to a point in your relationship where you are not able to respect each other, and the time that you’ve spent together is the only reason you are holding on, perhaps it is time to let go. However, it could be that this new guy only seems so appealing to you because he is out of reach currently. You need to choose a man, but the most important part is to give the one you choose a thorough try. Don’t give up and don’t regret your decision.

Well if you think you could continue feeling great with Nicky long term, then maybe you’ve decided. I really can’t tell you who you love more :) I can just advise you to give the one you choose a thorough try and forget the other one entirely as you focus on making it work.

Fighting is no good, if you choose Josh, you two should work on solving problems calmly with emphasis on compromise and demonstrating respect for each other’s goals.

Sweet! Likewise!

Wow thanks! :D

Lol, this could keep going or you could accept my thanks and stop making me blush.

Well now that Nicky is cheating on you maybe you should get Josh to kick his butt and sue him for child support.

You’re very close to Nicky, and even though fights are bad, they are natural things that happen in a relationship :) Sit down with Nicky, and talk to him about it; there might be something going on in his life, and he just needs someone to talk to. :) at the same time, tell him how the fights are affecting you, and try to negotiate and find a solution :D as for Josh, if you really feel that strongly for him, give him a chance! :) There could be a chance that he could be Mr. Right :) After all, it’s about what YOU want :) Just follow your heart, and do what you think is best for you and your son, and make sure that you wont regret making a choice :):)