friends help: My ex broke up with me on Facebook and he told me that he felt - Help.com

Please tell me he did this in a private message on facebook and not on your page!

What a way to break up with someone!!

You were only together a very short time - maybe he just decided that it wasn’t working out. Sometimes that’s just the way it goes.

We were together for over three weeks and we haven’t talked in three months :(

And yes he chatted me

Rprudi wrote:
We were together for over three weeks and we haven’t talked in three months :(

Oh, I thought you meant you had been dating for 3 months!

Well, I don’t mean to sound harsh, but if you only dated for 3 weeks and you haven’t spoken for months, you just need to forget about him and move on.

It sounds as if he has, unfortunately.

Yep my bf just broke up with me not 4 hours ago, said the same thing and we shared and spoke about everything as well he was my first so that makes it more painful. The one thing you can do is do what I’m doing distract yourself with various things, housework, tidying your room, taking a walk in the fresh air, a night out with friends, spending time with family, go to a salon and get your hair done.

Sorry I didn’t know you hadn’t spoken for 3 months I thought you said you went out for 3 months in that case he’s a bit mean for not speaking to you and forget about him completely. My bad =/

It may be neither your nor his fault. Sometimes relationships simply come to a dead end and, although it may only be perceived as such by him, if one person is not satisfied with the current course the relationship is on then it will inevitably be doomed to failure.

I would also like to point out that some people are not entirely honest in their reasons for breaking up with someone. So it wouldn’t be altogether impossible that his telling you “the relationship wasn’t going anywhere” is a pretext.

The thing is that he was on his sisters account and talked to me without me knowing. Also he talked to me for a few minutes about homework and then left. And after our breakup in school he would turn around and stare at me and if he walked past me then he would look at me with a sad face and I didnt get it.

It sounds like he’s missing you and is possibly wanting you back. That would be my conjecture based on the information given.

The best thing you can do, in my opinion, is not let this guy rent space in your head. At any rate, I do not know what he is thinking or what his intentions are regarding you. It just seems reasonable for me to suspect that he is making an effort to mess with your head in a way to seemingly win your affection back.

The thing is that I liked him a lot this year and he liked me too and last year as well. In February he chatted me and asked me what I would say if he asked me out last year and I told him that I would say yes. This year we were closer than last year and we would talk to each other everyday and out of the blue he would tell me things that he didn’t tell anybody else and I would too. We would talk for hours about things and we had weird conversations. We would help each other with homework and it was just nice to talk to someone who doesn’t judge you. This year at our second to last school dance of the year the last song was a slow song and then one of my guy friends who’s had a huge crush on me the whole year danced with me and my crush saw us and he made a heart with his hands. That weekend I talked to his sister and I told him that I was wanting to tell her that I liked her brother and then she persuaded him to ask me out on Monday and he did. We had a good relationship but people were rushing us and it made it pretty awkward. I regret dating him in some way because we wouldn’t be strangers like we are now…I also have to consider that what’s done is done and if I said no to him then he would be sad.