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I hate myself and im the biggest mistake of my dad’s

life and i think i should just kill myself.

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HorseyMand offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

It’s okay hon. You are not a mistake. You are a beautiful, lovely person, so believe in yourself :)

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HorseyMand offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

And anyway, if you were a mistake, it doesn’t matter. Human beings aren’t mistakes, they’re people. Don’t kill yourself, it would be a waste of a precious life that could be spent helping others.

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Dragon_Lady offline Verified User (5 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 27 minutes after post)

Of course you are not a mistake!

Why do you believe your Dad feels that way?

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dstutzbach offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 46 minutes after post)

Well lets not sugar coat things. Perhaps in your Dad’s eyes that might but true, but your happiness can’t be predicated on what others think or say. You have to discover happiness within yourself. It’s a life long journey for some, and comes easy for others… i’m going to go ahead an echo a sentiment from Horseymand and say that you should certainty help others in any capacity you can and you will find your self worth go through the roof. Fastest way to feel better about yourself.

People are Horrible so just disregard your father, you be the best person you can be.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 23 minutes after post)

It sounds to me like your dad is a big mistake. Anyone who would talk to their own daughter like that is unfit to own a dog, much less raise a little girl. How old are you? You can move out at 18 or call human services and be removed from your home.

Don’t you have any grandparents or other relatives you could go live with? It sounds like dad needs a little taste of his own medicine. Run away to a relatives and when the cops come tell them what he has been saying.

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dstutzbach offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 25 minutes after post)

The cops won’t do anything because her Dad said hurtful things. Unless he’s physically abusing her, they really can’t do anything. If it seems like she honestly might kill herself then they might get involved and take her to a pyschward but outside of that… they won’t bother.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (4 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 27 minutes after post)

I would still do all I could to mess with him. It sounds like a good plan to me.

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