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I’m in love with my ex boyfriend’s ex best friend.

Who is also my best friends ex boyfriend. I have liked this guy since I met him. They recently broke up, I know this is wrong. But when I talk to him I can’t help but with he would feel the same. He still likes my friend, but she doesn’t want him anymore. What do I do? I can’t handle talking to him and feeling this anymore. I’m lost.

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iMadBro offline Verified User (5 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Newark, DE, US | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

this was kind of hard to follow but, if this person is an ex best friend then… what do you have to lose? It’s not like they associate with each other anymore, go for it, or you’ll live a life of regrets

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SomeNYChick offline Verified User (3 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

Absolutely NOT. It is girl code..what’s wrong with you? You cannot date your friends exes..even if she doesn’t want him, he is off limits. Especially since they JUST broke up

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nolateri offline Verified User (11 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

I totaly agree. This is a MAJOR GIRL CODE and should be a no brainer decision. My best friend when I was younger did this…the relationship never worked and neither did our friendship……How could you even think or consider this as ok? Don’t go there….you will be back on here months from now crying how you thought this guy liked you and…….and how you lost your best friend.. SERIOUSLY DON’T!

SomeNYChick wrote:
Absolutely NOT. It is girl code..what’s wrong with you? You cannot date your friends exes..even if she doesn’t want him, he is off limits. Especially since they JUST broke up

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nolateri offline Verified User (11 months, 4 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

I think you need to reread her post!

iMadBro wrote:
this was kind of hard to follow but, if this person is an ex best friend then… what do you have to lose? It’s not like they associate with each other anymore, go for it, or you’ll live a life of regrets

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