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I hate my family so f***ing much.

I’m going off to University in 2 months, but I need to get out of this house now. Any ideas? I can’t very much run away, and I don’t have family near by. I need to get the **** out of here, these ******* people are just too annoying and too dumb to stand any longer. I can’t do this any more. I don’t want a lecture about how I should appreciate what I have, I don’t want and oh-so-wise insight from some ******* internet guru, I just need some ideas about how I can stay away from these people.

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GoingHome! offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

It’s called teen angst and it goes away once you get away for a while. I’m 20 years old and just experienced this myself, so I’m not some old person trying to teach ‘these youngins’ a thing or two, I’m just like you are. Relax.

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noonelikesaknowitall offline Verified User (3 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

get a live in job before you go to university, hotel or bar work is good for that, bar work no experience required, you can go anywhere in the country.

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The Sherlockian offline Verified User (5 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 38 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

Join the military. That’s a fast ticket out of your situation.

Now you have to decide if you would hate being in Afghanistan more than you hate your parents.

By the way, I’m in Afghanistan.

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Angie. offline Verified User (5 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 190 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

Stay at a mates house?

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jbeam40 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

My God. you’re complaining about having to live at home for two months before going to college and acting like a two year old throwing a tantrum. If you don’t like where you live, do like millions of others. Pack a bag, and move out and you worry about how you are going to live for a change. It’s obvious someone else has been doing all of this for you till this point. You have the chance that so many would kill for and you’re complaining. From this it looks as if you want your cake and eat it too, grow up or life will hand you things you really don’t want.

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soreigjo offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

Well, jbeam40, thanks so much for giving me the exact input I’m not interested in. You don’t know my family situation. You don’t know if I’m abused, sexually, physically, or mentally, you don’t know if I have serious problems and am not, as you say, “acting like a two year old throwing a tantrum”. I don’t assume that you’re a fool, despite the post you’ve responded with, but I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt, as you should for me. All you know, is that I am in a poor enough situation that I need to get out.

And thank you, crackers and noonelikesanoitall, for actual input. I am going to a friends house now, and I do already have 2 jobs, which is one of the reasons that I need to stay in the immediate area. Thank you.

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soreigjo offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

And chev.jame, thank you for your service.

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Angie. offline Verified User (5 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 190 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

No worries,hope it all works out for you.

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christineaminnic offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (54 minutes after post)

Hey whats a ” live in job”" ?

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noonelikesaknowitall offline Verified User (3 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 33 minutes after post)

christineaminnic wrote:
Hey whats a ” live in job”" ?

its where they provide accommodation with the job. It is usually just a room but often you get food included (at least on duty) as well. The quality of accommodation varies alot but it is a way out, no deposit required, no money management skills!!

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jbisretarded1 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 4 minutes after post)

Just be glad that you can get the **** out of there in two months. I’m stuck in the same situation for a few more years, Dude. You could just stay at a friend’s house, of get a job and get your own. You could say that you want to settle in to your new location before school starts. Or just grin and bear it. It sucks ***, but that’s the best thing to do.

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michealramgobi offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 5 minutes after post)

you need to cherish the moment you have with your family because maybe today is the last day you’re seeing them! you never no. Or maybe they are seeing you foe the last day. So don’t let people influence you on how to live your life! besides never let your friends pressure you into something you would regret! careful when choosing your friends too!

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