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Should I let what others think of someone change my mind about being with them?
There are so many posts on here that start with ’so, yeah, there’s this guy…’ but i really can’t think of another way to start. So, yeah, there’s this guy…and we’ve been getting along amazingly recently after my friend introduced us. He’s really friendly, funny and I love hanging around with him; my friend is convinced that me and him should be together…and she’s been going on about this for ages.
Then last saturday I spent the whole day with him and our mates, and it was the best time I’ve had for a while - and towards the end we were like getting closer and closer, and we make each other laugh and I love his company…
So yeah. Preeety good day!!
Today he texts me to give me his number, and as i have no credit I ask my other mate to tell him I got his text, and then he replies saying ‘can you say i need to tell her something tomorrow’. So i get her to tell him to text me what he wanted to say. (…this is turning out really long-winded, I’m sorry!!)
Basically he tells me that he really likes me. (and i kinda like him too)
But at this point this friend says ‘Oh good - so he’s over me then?!?’.
One - she seems pretty relieved. Is he really that bad?
Two - how long ago did he like her??!?!?!!! Fickle, much!
Three - The way she was talking bout him after that kinda made me think that if I did go out with him, she would disapprove.
Do you think I should worry about other people’s opinons if I do tell him I like him?
You see, I let what others think get to me, and it can really change my mind on something like this.
Any help is much appreciated!!!!!!!!! Love you guys!!!!!!!! ;D
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