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Anxiety.

I have this insane amount of anxiety. I dont know about what. I feel my life is like a drawing gone wrong and I wanna tear it up and throw it in the bin and start on a fresh sheet. Except there’s no way to do it. The humiliation from someone rejecting me and throwing me out, the mistakes i have made, the uncertainty in my present, loneliness. Everything. It is like there is a wide wide chasm. I am on one side of it. The whole world is on the other side. And nobody - NOBODY can see or hear me. Tears only make me worse. Bring on crazy headaches. Please help me.

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Zirbel 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

First of all you should boost your low self-esteem, my dear!

“How to increase your self-esteem”:
http://www.mind.org.uk/help/diagnoses…

“Six Behaviors that Increase Self-Esteem”:
http://www.changeforgood.com/articles…

“Boost your self-image with these 5 steps”:
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/self…

“Self Esteem Affirmations” · Tutorial:
http://www.wiziq.com/tutorial/63505-S…

“Developing Self Confidence”:
http://www.wiziq.com/tutorial/28204-D…

“How to Improve Self Confidence, Self Esteem and Overcome Fear of Rejection”:
http://sofs.hubpages.com/hub/Building…

And this may help you too:

“How to Lose Shyness and Social Anxiety - 3 Main Tips to a Better Social Life”:
http://ezinearticles.com/?How-to-Lose…

“How To Lose Your Shyness Step By Step”:
http://www.squidoo.com/how-to-lose-yo…

“How To Overcome Shyness When Meeting People”:
http://www.essortment.com/overcome-sh…

“How to Stop Worrying · Self-Help Strategies for Anxiety Relief”:
http://helpguide.org/mental/anxiety_s…

Anonymous #
10 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

I am not shy. I dont have low self esteem. I believe I am a nice person, worthy. Yet there is just a lot of pain. And well, I dont know if anyone can understand. I just wish I knew how to deal with this.

Anonymous #
10 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

Thank you for your links though.

Zirbel 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (36 minutes after post)

Shyness, low self-esteem and social anxiety go together very well.
Only if you accept it, instead of denying it, you will be able to change it — step by step.

Anonymous #
10 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 29 minutes after post)

Parochial as it may sound, I am not in denial.

And while I appreciate that your intent may be positive, I do have to request you to not judge me and not insist. While I am not offended yet, I need to let you know that you are not being helpful at all this way. Seems like you are unable to understand my problem - no harm done though thanks for trying.

Anonymous #
10 months, 3 weeks ago (10 hours, 14 minutes after post)

stubbornness is the power of ignorance
(proverb)

Anonymous #
10 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day after post)

Well said. Now please stop being so stubborn. Seeing as how this has been the most unhelpful post to human or beast I ought to close this.

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