friends help: Lonely as a tree in a desert.

sophie.favill

Lonely as a tree in a desert.

Before you think I’m just some boy crazed idiot, let me explain. I go to an all girls school and practically all of the people there are really slutty and stupid so i mostly keep to myself but i’m not shy or anything. anyway i just have this sad, awful desire to be with someone. I’m not anything guys my age would want and even though i have a school ’social’ coming up, no ones actually going to talk to me cause all the girls are going as whores and from what I’ve been told by people who have gone in the past is, all the guys go straight to them. Which sucks but i guess since they’re doing that you don’t want to know them but still, i don’t want to be standing in the corner with my iPod listening to music. I know I’m only a teenager but i just really want someone to be with. To hug me, kiss me and just generally be with me but i have no way of meeting anyone. And ironically i have stupid, high standards regarding mostly music taste, wit and clothes but it’s not like I’m asking them to buy me the moon! I’m close to my neighbour who’s a guy (known him since birth, feels like my brother) but we’re the kind of friends who when we’re together we just hang out with each other so id feel stupid asking to meet his friends and whatnot. Anyway i guess I’m asking for tips to meet a non jerkish, civilised man while still in school. God reading back i sound so desperate but whatever, I’m a lonely cat so i guess it doesn’t matter what i do.

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Always griffin 1 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

wow, sending you a cyber hug for comfort

Help me with: May 24 1980, I was beaten,

kitty.softpaws 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

Wow. Hope you got it of your chest with this post :)
It is frankly impossible that all the girls are whores and that all the guys go after them. Talking from experience, I might add. I changed many schools. 3 years I was in one where I thought everyone was a jerk and stupid. I was like you, an mp3 player, a corner and I’m fine. Limited interactions and socializing. Then I got to know a couple of girls and guys better after like 2 yrs. Somehow they always fitted in the mass (not to cause themselves problems) but were really great people.

You need to search, there are available boys out there, they are thinking they are invisible just like you. And if you still can’t find anyone, try talking to your neighbor. It is not stupid to say you need to get out of the house and then go hanging out with him and his friends. It’s just hanging out, it’s not a date ;)